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Sexual Assault

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Update posted 2 days ago

Petition to Mark Emmert, L. Jay Lemons, NCAA

Dear NCAA: My Mom Is a Rape Survivor and You Can Help

My mother and I are asking the NCAA to ban violent athletes. Please read my letter and sign our petition. Let the NCAA know that sports are NOT more important than human lives! Dear NCAA, My name is Darius Adams. I’m the son of Brenda Tracy who is a public rape survivor. It was 2010 when my mom first told me that she was raped. I was 17. We were sitting in our car in our driveway. I remember it because it was a life-changing moment for me. She didn’t tell me because she wanted to. She told me because she had to. She was trying to save my life. I was out of control at the time. I was angry and broken and I didn’t care if I lived or not. I remember her crying and struggling to get the words out “I was raped.” She apologized to me over and over and asked me not to hate her. “Please don’t be ashamed of me. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry.” I still can’t understand why she was apologizing to me, but after that talk, I started to see her as a different person. I saw her as someone who had been hurt, and she was just doing the best she could as a single mother with two kids. It was then that I began to turn my life around — mostly for myself, but also for my mom. I wanted her to be proud of me. I wanted to make sure that what she went through and all the sacrifices she made for me and my brother were not in vain. It was 2014 when my mother went public with her story. I wasn’t prepared. She hadn’t told me the details in 2010, but now every ugly detail was on the internet in an article by John Canzano at the Oregonian. To this day, I haven’t read it all. I can’t. I just can’t. What I do know is that my mom was drugged and gang-raped by four football players in 1998. I know that Oregon State University gave two of them 25 hours community service and Coach Mike Riley gave them a one-game suspension. I know that the police threw away her rape kit and the DA lied to her about her case. I know that Oregon State cared more about football and money than my mom. I know that my mom wanted to kill herself, and I know that she almost did. And all because other people decided that football, money and reputation was more important than me and my brother having a mother. I was scared when the article first came out. I didn’t know how people would react to us. Would they attack my mom? Would they say terrible things about her? Would I have to defend her? And what would I say? But a great thing happened. People reached out to us and they supported us. They expressed their love and gratitude for my mom coming forward and being brave enough to tell her story. I was proud of her. It was the first time I saw her happy. It was like a huge weight had been lifted off of her. I’ve heard her say more than one time, “I walked out of my prison of shame and silence that day,” and she did. I could see it. Ever since then my mom has worked hard to help others. She’s passed five laws in Oregon. She’s won numerous awards. We just went to Washington, DC where she received the National Service Courage Award from the United States Attorney General. She also changed a Pac 12 rule so that athletes with serious misconduct issues can’t transfer into our conference. She’s my hero. And that’s why I’m writing to you. I’m a college athlete, and I watch ESPN religiously. There’s a serious problem in sports. We don’t take sexual violence seriously enough. Seventeen years ago Coach Mike Riley suspended the men that hurt my mom for one game and just yesterday I saw the story about Baylor. Nothing has changed. Schools are still more worried about money and football than people’s lives. I’m a grown man now. I would never hurt a woman that way and I know that most men wouldn’t. Why are we protecting this small group of men? Why are we allowing them to destroy people’s lives? All of these victims have families and they get hurt too. I’m still dealing with what happened to my mom. We need to do something right now, and I think it starts with the NCAA creating a policy that bans violent athletes. Enough is enough. It’s been 17 years and nothing has changed. How many more years do we have to wait for something to happen? As the NCAA you have authority over many schools. YOU can change this. These schools have proven that they are not going to do the right thing. I believe it is your responsibility to step in. And please don’t do it for me or my mom. Do it because it’s the right thing to do. Sincerely, Darius Adams

Darius Adams
177,464 supporters
Update posted 4 days ago

Petition to Terry McAuliffe, Tim Kaine, Mark Warner, Department of Justice, Federal Bureau of Investigation

Stop Daniel Cleaves from preying on innocent women.

Daniel Cleaves is a violent, dangerous predator, and for years has assaulted, raped, stalked and terrorized countless women and Transsexuals across the Washington Metropolitan location. He is HIV positive and is deliberately infecting his victims with the virus. Somehow, this monster always walks away a free man. Shortly after being freed, quickly finds new victims. He stalks them aggressively and threatens horrible acts of violence when he gets rejected by them. He often has blamed his actions on PTSD. He has impersonated police officers on multiple occasions, using this to find his new victims or obtain information as to where they live. He has a very lengthy criminal record showing his repeated acts of violence. He has been known to drug his victims. He is known to stalk bars for most of his victims, but has begun to pick others at random. Normally at gas stations and convenience stores. I offer caution for females, children to be cautious of this man if you are visiting these places. Daniel Cleaves was back in court in Henrico county on August 3rd, 2016. The victim did file charges which were a direct violation of his federal probation. His 7 year prison sentence, previously given to him, was to be imposed. Finally, his victims got justice and a slight peace of mind. Not for long. Yet again, this monster has been set free! He is mentally unstable. Despite her charges, and the account of what he did to her, he was not sent back to jail! Why are we waiting for him to kill someone? How many more victims must he rack up before something is done to stop his reign of terror? We are fed up. We are tired of being afraid of this man. Enough is enough. We demand something be done to protect us from this sexual predator. How many more stories do we have to read before something is done? http://wtvr.com/2016/06/14/daniel-cleaves-update/ How many more lives will be ruined, as this man sleeps with women on purpose with the full intent of spreading HIV and changing their lives forever? https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/man-sentenced-to-18-months-in-montgomery-county-hiv-case/2015/03/30/87b3a238-d6d7-11e4-8103-fa84725dbf9d_story.html    

Christina Sadoski
2,231 supporters