Twenty-six years ago, we faced an unimaginable tragedy when we lost our eldest son, Scott, in a road traffic accident at the tender age of 16. Scott was a bright beacon in our lives, and his loss left a void that words can scarcely convey. We laid him to rest at Adam Brae Cemetery in West Lothian, purchasing a plot that we thought of as a final, untouchable sanctuary for him—a space for remembrance and reflection.

In memory of Scott, we personalized his grave with ironworks, a fitting tribute to his spirit, as it stands as a center of solace for us and all those who loved him. After standing intact and safe for more than a quarter of a century, West Lothian Council has now decided to remove all metal works from the cemetery, citing unspecified health and safety regulations.

This directive has shattered our peace, and we find it deeply unjustified. For years, we have visited his resting place without incident or concern, even as the grounds are maintained using ride-on mowers that comfortably navigate the same terrain. The council’s abrupt and insensitive measure neither communicates clarity on the supposed risks nor respects our rights as plot owners. As plot owners, we believe in the sanctity of this final resting place, a microcosm governed by personal memories and familial respect.

We call upon West Lothian Council to reconsider their decision and to engage with the families affected by this order. At the heart of this matter lies not a mere legislative discrepancy, but the essence of human grief and the ways in which we find comfort. It's crucial that the council considers alternative solutions that allow for both the beautification and safekeeping of Adam Brae Cemetery without erasing decades-old memorials lovingly erected by grieving families.

Join us in urging the council to pause this removal process and open a dialogue. Together, we can find common ground that acknowledges the necessity of safety while preserving cherished personal heritage. Sign this petition to stand with us in protecting the memory of our beloved Scott and others like him.