ban d rituals of "kanyadaan/kanyaviday", kanyadaan=human trafficking, end patriarchy.

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“kanyadan” is a name of human trafficking !! we have to ban nonsense customs of “kanya’daan/kanya’viday’” !! bride n groom wl mutually decide d parental home according to deir job n business ease !! der is no logic in sacrificing only d girl’s life EVERYTIME !! 

we should have some laws like we have against dowry n all, d same way against d rituals of "kanyadaan/kanyaviday" !! Like "satipratha" ritual has been banned, so dis cruel rituals should also b banned !! D brahmin who perform such, should b in jail !! D bride n groom can decide d place or parents on deir own or all can live together !! Dat's all deir choice !! legal points are
1) crime of human trafficking 
2) it is based on gender, so it is purely atrocity on women

Ladki ya aurato ki jobi buri halat he un sabka root cause yhi he !! "Bhrunhatya" isiliye hoti he, bcoz ladki to paraya dhan he to usme invest krke koi nuksan knyu krega?? Fir hr batme ladkiko bahar mat jane do, ye nhi krne do, vo nhi krne do, ku6 unch nich ho gai to?? kaun le jayega fir ise?? Kisiko deneke chakkar me puri life barbad !! Jab tk "kanyaviday" ki rasam band nhi hoti, india ka ku6 nhi ho skta !! 

agr "kanyadaan/kanyaviday" human trafficking nhi he, to fir uske badle "putraviday" chalu kr dona !! n is bat ka answer nonsense jaisa tradition ya culture mat dena !! ku6 logical humanity vala answer ho tohi jawab dena !!

अच्छा हेकी हम gender roles(sexism) खतम कर दे, लड़कोंको घरका काम भी सिखाए n लड़कियोको job/business करनेकी या घर खरीदनेकी आजादी दे, 'कन्यादान' जैसी फालतू चीज़ बंद करके दोनोको दोनोके parents के साथ रहेनेकी आजादी दे !!

bcoz jinko aap hmesa apne pas rakh hi nhi skte, jinko viday krke dur krna compulsory he, unke liye koibi apna paisa ya emotions invest krna nhi chahta, ladka-ladki shadi ke bad kisike bi gharme rahena chahe, dono trf equal permission honi chahiye, just kisine santan me male gender ko peda kia he, isliye unko sare laabh mile vo galat bat he, isiliye ladka na hove tb tk 4-5 ladkiya peda krte he log !!

indian government is spending many thousand crores in advertisement of "beti bachao", but why can't dey just ban dis "kanyadaan" like dowry !!?

हिन्दू विवाह रीति मैं पाणिग्रहण संस्कार आता है,पाणि का मतलब होता है हाथ। इसका तात्पर्य है कि शादी के समय लड़की और लड़के का हाथ एक दूसरे के हाथ में दिया जाता है जिसका मतलब है कि आज से तुम दोनों एक साथ जीवन निर्वाह करोगे। पाणिग्रहण संस्कार की जगह कन्यादान ने कब ले ली और कन्यादान क्यों बोले जाने लगा, ये सोचने का विषय है।

Ladki kisiki bi ijjat nhi he !! Ladkiko "gharki ijjat" bulana band kr do !! Ladki ek insan he !! Gharki ijjat ladkope depend he ki vo bajar me kitni udhari krke aa jate he, gharke bade kitna corruption kr lete he !! Bharat me itna corruption hota he to vo koina koi to kr rha hena, vo gharki ijjat jati he !!

Dis is d height of patriarchy n capitalism dat Karan Johar n Tushar kapoor can become single fathers by buying d womb of a female & any girl using her own womb wid her own choice to be a mother bfor marriage will b abused n left out on d name of shame !!

Boys plz never ever say dat "we have to earn a lot of money to get a girl !!"
U r lying !! U want to earn a lot to boost ur ego n intimidate d society !!
Why do u people always defame girls labeling greedy for money !!?

Hjaro saalose laakho bachioka make petme murder hua he & abhibi aap esi koibi shaadime jate ho jaha kanyaviday ki rasam nibhayi jati he to fir aapse bada paapi aur koi nhi he !!

Whenever indian man says dat "we should preserve our indian culture n traditions" he actually meant "indian men should keep on getting free servant n sex slave on the name of kanyadaan"

Human female(mother) se jyada a6i to dog female(mother) he ki jo kabi apne female puppyko love krneke liye condition nahi rakhti ki agr tu apne pati n saas sasur ki hr sewa kregi tohi me tume love krungi, vrna ye gharke darwaje tumare liye hmesake liye band he,
"me jaha bolungi tume vahi shaadi krni pdegi" vrna dinraat taane maar maarke tumse suicide krva lungi me !!

Overfreedom to boys (means patriarchy) gives unbearable pain to many elder sisters !! Bcoz dey have to see deir little angles changed in devils very helplessly !! 

Jab tk compulsory kanyaviday band nhi hota, tb tk woman empowerment ke liye aur ku6 bi krneka koi matlb nhi he !!

Yhape baat ye heki "nahi hme bahuko beti banana he" n "nahi hme damad ko beta banana he" hme 18+ adults ko unki choice ka pura freedom dena he bas, vo chahe 18+females ho ya males ho !!

itne crimes hote he usmese 70% times criminals ki ma, bahen ya biwiko pata hi hota he, pr firbi vo log chup bethate he, bcoz pitrusatta me pahelese unko kaam krneki/paise kamaneki azadi nhi he, n dusra bure insan ko divorce deneme bi galat mana jata he, isi chakkar me india me 70% criminals ko gharme support milta rheta he !!

purane zamane me brahmin log hr 6ote kaam me bade riwaz n ganv ko khana khilao, ye sab krte the, taki public hamesha garib ki garib bani rhe n raja apni saramukhatyarshahi kar ske, isiliye brahmin ya kshatriy ke alava dusri jatioko education bi nahi dia jata tha !! Par abhi tk hm esa knyu krte he?? Bacheka naamkaran to sabko khana khilao, mundan karao to sabko khana khilao, shadi kro to sabko khana khilao, gharme koi mar jaye to sabko khana khilao !! Ye sab faltu dikhava, fizul kharchi ye sab hmne abhi tak band knyu nahi kia??

Jis din "kanyadaan-kanyaviday" band ho jayega,
us din ye dialogue bi band ho jayega ki "tume paraye ghar jana he, sahan krna to sikhna pdega"

Patriarchy(kanyadaan n kanyaviday) is d only reason for female infanticides !!
पितृसत्ता(कन्यादान और कन्याविदाय) महिला शिशु/कन्या भ्रूण हत्याके लिए एकमात्र कारण है !!

me hr gharme dahej mangate hue nhi pr dahej dete hue dekha he, jaise hr ladkike ma-bap proudly bolte heki "hmne to itna lakh dia" aapne koi nek kaam kia he jo aap sbke samne ese bol rhe ho?? Aapne samaaj me dahej ki duraiko badhava dia he !!

No Kanyadaan=no female infanticide=no dowry=money spent on girl’s education=independent confident girl=healthy/wealthy/courageous mother n children=healthy/wealthy country=No misogyny=No abuse or torture on a girl child = No gender based work distribution = No disappointment on birth of a girl child =  No extra privilege for 60% parents just only bcoz dey have given birth to a boy child

Dear aunties, agr kanyadaan krna hmara culture he to Sati hona bi hmara culture he, apne patiki chita pe jalke mar jao, n jyada biwiya rkhna bi hmara culture he, patiko bolo ki dusri biwi le aaye vaisebi gharme bahot kaam rheta he !! Culture follow krna heto pura hi kro, Sati bano to fatke hath me aa jayegi !! Juthe 'manuvad' n 'brahminvad' mese bahar niklo !!

All marriages should b without "kanyadaan" and "kanyaviday" !! Husband n wife will mutually decide d home according to deir job n business location !!
https://www.navodayatimes.in/news/khabre/first-women-preist-who-performed-marriage-without-kanyadan/76537/

Hme koi right nhi chahiye bhai !! bas khali kanyadan ke badle "putradaan" shuru kr do !! Sasural janeka riwaj khali badal do ki ladkiya sasural nhi jayegi, ab thode salo ke liye thoda change krte hena ki ab ladke sasural jayenge !! bas hme aur ku6 nhi chahiye !!

Ladki ya aurato ki jobi buri halat he un sabka root cause yhi he !! "Bhrunhatya" isiliye hoti he, bcoz ladki to paraya dhan he to usme invest krke koi nuksan knyu krega?? Fir hr batme ladkiko bahar mat jane do, ye nhi krne do, vo nhi krne do, ku6 unch nich ho gai to?? kaun le jayega fir ise?? Kisiko deneke chakkar me puri life barbad !! Jab tk "kanyaviday" ki rasam band nhi hoti, india ka ku6 nhi ho skta !!
All marriages should b without "kanyadaan" and "kanyaviday" !! Pati n patni apne job ya business ke location ke hisab se khud hi decide kr lenge ki kiske gharpe rhena he !!
https://www.navodayatimes.in/news/khabre/first-women-preist-who-performed-marriage-without-kanyadan/76537/

पितृसत्ता जो है वो औरत n मर्द दोनो की इन्सानियत, मानवता, दया खतम कर देता है !!
जब किसी इन्सान के ऊपर रिवाज़ या प्रथा के नाम पे बारबार अत्याचार होता है तो फिर वो खुद भी पत्थर ही बन जाते है !!
पितृसत्ता से मर्दोको ये सीख मिलती हेकी उनका काम बस खाली पैसे कमाना ही है, n पैसे कमानेके लिए उन्हे अपने दूसरे शोख, इच्छाये सब मारके जीना पडता है, कंयुकि पितृसत्ता उनको ये सिखाती हैकि तुम घरमे औरतके पैसे खर्च नही कर सकते, बिवीकी कमाई खानेसे वो नीचा हो जाता है, ये सब मान्यताओ के कारण मर्द अहँकारी, गुस्सैल, frustrated रहेते हे !!

Vaise to juth felake rakha heki “kanyadan” sbse bada daan he, to jb bhagwan aapki kokh me “kanyadan” deta heto use maar dete ho !! wah bhai wah !!

हमारे देशमे पितृसत्ता ये सिखाती हेकी लड़केका खुदका घर होना चाहिए, लड़का अच्छा कमाना चाहिए, पैसा कमाना तो खाली उसीका काम है, इतने pressure मे लड़केभी suicide करते है, इससे अच्छा हेकी हम gender roles(sexism) खतम कर दे, लड़कोंको घरका काम भी सिखाए n लड़कियोको job/business करनेकी या घर खरीदनेकी आजादी दे, 'कन्यादान' जैसी फालतू चीज़ बंद करके दोनोको दोनोके parents के साथ रहेनेकी आजादी दे, तो india मे 50% suicide कम हो जायेंगे !!

rigid patriarchy ws always d reason behind making narcissists. kuntimata had to abandon karna due to patriarchy who later became d staunch n strongest supporter of duryodhana. pandavas had right to gamble on deir wife draupadi, bcoz patriarchy taught dat wife is ur property. n duryodhana became capable of removing clothes of draupadi in public assembly n it boosted his ego so high dat den he wanted all n all n all, he lost d sense of brotherhood, humanity or justice.