I understand that I can help create a future SAFE from domestic and family violence by being proactive and informed. I know that change is possible and it starts with me.

I pledge to:

See: recognise the signs

I understand that domestic and family violence can take many forms including emotional, psychological, financial, spiritual, technological, physical and sexual abuse. I will be attuned to signs like loss of confidence, social isolation, partner control, and physical injuries. 

• I will learn more about the signs of domestic and family violence. Learn more.
• When someone I know is experiencing abuse, I will believe and listen without judgment. Learn more.
• When someone I know is experiencing abuse, I will help guide them to confidential and free services. Learn more.

Act: respond to violence 

I will not turn a blind eye – when I see it or hear the signs, I will act responsibly. I understand that safely intervening can mean saving someone’s life.

• When I see or hear a situation that is unsafe, I will call 000.
• When I see or hear a situation that I can safely intervene in, I will do so without putting myself or others in danger. Learn more.

Face-up: lead by example  

I understand that what I do and say every day can make a difference and that my behaviour is an example to others. I will ensure I play my part in creating a culture that is respectful and doesn’t minimise or excuse violence.

• I will call out disrespect, discrimination and sexism, if I hear it in someone’s behaviour, jokes, or comments. Learn more.
• I will talk to my family and friends to increase awareness of domestic violence and break down stigma. Learn more.
• I will model respectful relationships, communicating and resolving conflict in healthy ways. Learn more.
• I will offer support in ways that I can such as supporting local domestic violence organisations through donating or volunteering.

Educate: understanding leads to preventing

I recognise that with knowledge and awareness we can stop domestic and family violence before it starts.

• I will take the time to understand what causes domestic and family violence. Learn more.
• I will actively seek opportunities to encourage educational programs and training in my workplace, sport clubs, school/university, place of worship and so on.

By publicly taking this pledge, I hold myself accountable and acknowledge my role in the collective effort to eliminate domestic and family violence.

Join me in pledging to a SAFE future.

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About Domestic Violence NSW

Domestic Violence NSW (DVNSW) is a not-for-profit organisation and the peak body representing and supporting specialist domestic and family violence services in NSW. Our small, dedicated team work together with over 170 member organisations across the state and diverse lived expertise advisory groups, to improve policy, legislative and program responses to domestic and family violence through advocacy and collaboration. We exist to eliminate domestic and family violence.

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