Today marks 228 days since my wife has seen her daughter’s. The people responsible for this are the biological father and the biological grandmother. They have denied my wife her parenting time for almost every reason. Numerous agencies have told them to allow my wife her parenting time yet here we are 228 days in not being able to see them for her parenting time. We have planners we have all the documentation. We need to make Family Court a more serious priority. Criminals can be second.

   We as fathers and mothers need to take action and hold the people responsible for the actions and choices they make criminally liable. Parental alienation has affected over 22 million people and over 10 million have been the target of severe parental alienation. In the time we face today I truly fear if we do not put an end to it those numbers will become much worse.

   Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against that other parents.

  Here are some examples of Parental Alienation:

Parental Alienation Example #1: Badmouthing one parent.

This can include criticizing or belittling the other parent to the child, or telling the child that his or her other parent is crazy, dangerous or otherwise unworthy of being a parent.

Example #2: Causing the child to reject the other parent.

This can include making the child feel guilty for loving the other parent, as well as creating parent-child conflict, forcing the child to choose between one or the other

Example #3: Interfering with the child’s visitation time and contact with the other parent.

This includes being chronically late to drop off the child (or picking the child up too early), finding reasons to keep the child when he or she is supposed to be with the other parent, excessively calling the child when he or she is with the other parent, or refusing the child to get in touch with the other parent.

Example #4: Undermining the child’s relationship with the other parent.

This includes interrogating the child about details of his or her visit with the other parent or asking the child to spy, as well as refusing to provide the other parent with information on the child or failing to invite the other parent to important activities (like conferences, school plays and things of that nature).

What Are the Signs of Parental Alienation?

The signs of parental alienation aren’t always easy to spot, but if you see them, it’s in your best interest to take your child to talk to a therapist or counselor as soon as possible. It can be incredibly painful and harmful – not just to the child, but to the alienated parent as well.

Some of the signs of parental alienation include:

Extreme negativity toward the alienated parent, including denying past positive experiences
Lack of remorse for hurting the alienated parent’s feelings
Preposterous reasons for being angry with the alienated parent
Saying that the rejection of the alienated parent is “all my idea”
Seeing one parent as “all-good” and the other as “all-bad”
Taking the side of the alienating parent, no matter what. 

  I’ve left some websites at the bottom of the petition that I’ve accumulated in the efforts to help others.

  So we as fathers and mothers need to stand up and take action. Let our voices be heard. Let’s build a brighter and better future for our families. Let’s stand up and fight for our rights as mothers and fathers. We as mothers and fathers need to fight for our right to be in our children’s lives and stop the people who wish to infringe upon that. We need to hold the agencies responsible for not respecting court orders.  

   We need a new Family Law that makes the sheriff departments, the police stations, and all other agencies follow and respect our parenting plans. Why else would a sheriffs provision be attached to our parenting plans. Stating they are to enforce it. 

   We need a new Family Law that holds the people that are responsible for PARENTAL ALIENATION accountable for their actions. We are the voice we are the parents that are suffering.Now let our VIOCES be heard and let’s make a CHANGE to the system that is constantly neglecting us and our children. 

 I found this information at https://www.maplesfamilylaw.com/child-custody/parental-alienation-examples/amp/

More helpful information

https://hopefulpanda.com/parental-alienation/

https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/parental-alienation/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/parental-alienation-unlocked/202105/how-recognize-parental-alienation

  Im trying to get as many signatures as possible in the next 30 to 90 days so that I can present this petition to the State of Missouri. I need at least 10,000 signatures to start the process. 

  With 10,000 signatures I will start the process of a peaceful protest at the local level first. As the signatures grow I will move to the State Level and get their attention. 

  I believe if we conquer this issue we can help families, parents and children have better and more meaningful relationships despite being separated from the other parent. I want to put the pressure on local courts, the state courts and the law in general. Make them respect our parenting plans we won’t take no for an answer anymore. 

 The solution to this is holding the courts to a higher standard. Opening the judges, child protection services, and all other agencies eyes to what a threat this can be. By having Child Protective Services do a more thorough investigation. If evidence is substantiated then proceed to treat it as what is should be and that’s abuse and hold the offending party or parties accountable. Offer the offender supervised visitation at the local agency and have them complete programs to help the offender. I’m not saying take the child away from them I’m just saying don’t allow them the access to reoffend. If the party was to reoffend then terminate their rights.