Family court will drain you, emotionally and monetarily. I am selling any and all my personal items on Marketplace ("Kimberly Lynn") in order to keep up with the cost of fighting against Parental Alienation in the 37th court district in Calhoun County Michigan. Same judge of seven years. Aren't judges suppose to be all for bringing children and their parents together? Aren't judges suppose to want an innocent child whose been through hell to finally have some peace in her life and be reunited with her mother. Not this judge. Instead this judge suspends all of my parenting time back in April until the psychological assessment in which I requested in the first place, be completed? Then he suspends my parenting time even longer until after the Evidentiary hearing is over? These hearings could last a year (like the last one I just had). I never agreed to suspending my parenting time. The judge over ruled his own newly signed court order in September of 2020 and my ex has stopped all contact between my daughter and I.

In fact, the judge stated in April that the psychological testing, that I requested on all parties, would not affect my summer parenting time exchange date of June 12th. The doctor conducting the psychological test stated on May13th in a letter that was submitted to the judge this assessment would be completed by May 28th. Here we are a month after that date with June almost being over and still yet no assessment has been submitted. I can't even get a respond back as to when the assessment will be completed. I definitely feel this was planned, once again to stop any and all parenting time I could ever get. 

I was court ordered to have my daughter all summer long, hasn't happened. I was court to have her Christmas, didn't happen. No consequences are ever given to him. He gets away with everything yet I have to pay his lawyer fees. I am always court ordered time that I know way ahead of time that the judge will change and never follow through with. After all, why would anyone who is expected to follow court order,  not follow the orders, then chooses to do what he wants because he knows he will always get away with it or be held accountable, why would he ever change his ways and start putting his child first. Yet, my parenting time is suspended having no valid reason to do so. Judges goes against his own court orders until the test and all hearings are complete. 

How does one get away with this? Kidnapped at 15 months and now my daughter is 8!!! So much time lost. Is it Bias? Injustice? What do you even call what has happened to my daughter and I?

Here's what goes through my mind. At times I think the judge knows he messed up. He knows he messed up years ago. He didn't think I would keep fighting. He though I would give up. Well he was wrong. Now he has to get out of such injustice served and time lost. I think this judge does know I deserve my daughter and he realizes just how much help her father truly needs to do the things one human being can do to another. Especially your child's own mother. Courts have ordered my ex into treatment since he was 12 years old yet no one ever seems to follow through. Not even my judge. He simply ignored any and all recommendations that stated I should have custody of our daughter. 

Instead, I continue to suffer the consequences. I'm punished for years because he's too prideful to admit parental alienation does exists, it has existed over the last seven years, and most likely he will never admit to how wrong he has been and I'll never get an apology and I'll never get my daughter back...