Kimberly FernandezCary, NC, United States
Jun 30, 2021

Yes, some of my posts are rather lengthy I know. But there's always a reason behind my posts and I share to spread awareness and help other targeted parents with their estranged children.

Fighting in family court is a very ugly thing. It definitely wears on you over the years. It isn't easy by any means. It will break you down so bad and take you so low it will force some to stop fighting for their child. Family court isn't your friend. They don't care about the child by any means, how the child feels, what the hell they've been put through by one parent who hates the other more than they love their own child, how these children have been manipulated and brainwashed for years and a judge thinks he can ask an eight year old where they want to live and a true and honest answer be given. No, family court wants you to keep coming back, they want to keep taking your money, in all reality they could care less about the best interest of the child just as my case proves this true in every way. It never was about Kelsie and her best interest to the court. It's about the targeted parent and what they can do to rip them apart in every way until they feel defeated.

This is why the courts have threatened me with jail for "sharing" the courts own public hearing videos that one can share. So the courts went "easy on me" by holding me in contempt and forcing me to pay his lawyer 470 dollars within 45 days for "SHARING" the courts own YouTube videos displaying public cases, to the public. The courts don't want a targeted parent of Parental Alienation spreading awareness and telling the world about the injustice of the court system and the part the courts play to help ruin thousands of innocent lives by forcing them to remain separate. The system is designed to set you up for failure. To keep you coming back. They work to intentionally keep a child separated from their other parent. If a judge wanted a child to know and spend time with their other parent, he would make it happen. In my case he does everything to keep us separated. Just when you think things can't get any sneaker in the Michigan family court system, they do...

Attached is what I get notice of today. Ironically, not by the court as should be, but by the psychologist doing the assessment via an email today. What?!?

Since when did procedures change to notify you of your hearing date. It's now okay to send an email stating "just giving you a heads up"? In the email I'm told my hearing this Friday is delayed. The reason: "due to the psychological assessment being only 90% complete they suddenly NEED ME to complete the last 10%".

First of all, I completed ALL of my assessment. I had to spend money to fly to Michigan and take part in this Court ordered psychological assessment. My part of the assessment has been long completed and no one will place any blame on me. How dare them use me as an excuse to further delay MY LONG AWAITED Evidentiary hearing. How convenient for them, "adjourned until the END of the month".

Two, Since when does the psychologist "give a heads up" via email stating my EVIDENTIARY hearing that was suppose to occur in two days has now been delayed once again.

Third, doesn't the judge's assistant serve proof of services? I inquired about my "proof of service" and she send me a file I couldn't even open.

Lastly, instead of the courts ever admitting any fault of failure on their end, such as forgetting to send me proof of service of this hearing, together they all come up with a plan to place blame solely on me.

Do they really think one can't figure out what just occurred through my track history of emails that leads to error on their end? Does it just keep getting slimmer the further down you dig in the fight to get your children back?

What really happened, the truth of the matter: The courts forgot to send me proof of service. The courts did not notify me in the alloted time frame of this very important upcoming hearing I've been waiting for that's taken my court ordered summer parenting time. Therefore the hearing that is to restore my parenting time and have the judge follow his own court order, is delayed yet again.

My parenting time is still suspended. They are searching for any way possible to hold me in contempt again and put me in jail this time. I'm sorry but I have a voice and I am going to use my God given voice. And the courts will not take away my right to speak out against parental alienation and share the dirty secrets and stories that have transpired throughout the duration of my custody battle thus far.

Skype, I use to call the Skype Kelsie and I shared, "Our saving grace".
Skype is now just another distant memory Kelsie and I once shared together. When the courts continued to take take take and worsen over time, Kelsie and I would say, "atleast we have skype". I could see her smiles and hear her laughs and she would know I'm always there. Many pinky promises via skype that I will keep coming back for her. Now they have successfully brainwashed and manipulated Kelsie to the point we have nothing, she is no longer "Kelsie". She is who her father makes her to be. The courts have completely sided with the Plaintiff for years and continued to further separate Kelsie and I. And all for what? What valid reason do the courts have? What is the purpose? There is no reason. Which is my point exactly in how they justice system works. Taking Jennifer's affidavit into consideration but not a word mentioned regarding my mother's affidavit.

So instead of being giving the choice to move forward with this hearing with a two day notice (which I would have in a heartbeat), they had already cancelled the hearing and move it as far down the month of June as they possibly could. "The hearing is being adjourned to July 29th so that Dr. ***** can complete the psychological evaluations."

Sorry but the psychologist has already written a letter dated May 13th to the Plaintiff's attorney and submitted said letter to the court as an exhibit. The doctor stated on May 13th "he needed two weeks from this Friday to complete his assessments" giving a completion date of May 28th. May 28th these assessments were suppose to be completed and submitted to the judge. Never happened.

All of June is spent by me writing emails asking for details of when the assessment will be completed. Just more time lost with my daughter thanks to a failed justice system. The process and what the courts do just can't get any sneakier. It absolutely disgusts me knowing how so many employees are silenced because they are in fear of losing their job or threatened with jail time. ******If it gets to the point where you no longer have a voice and are made to be silence, that should serve as your WAKE UP call***** That illegal acts are taking place and justice is definitely not of priority. They all stick together like glue. Instead of doing what's morally right when you know a child is suffering, instead you turn the other cheek because you know if you speak out and do the morally right thing, threats start coming your way.

Oaths are not taken seriously. Any employee who stands by and does nothing is just as much at fault for the one who condones the bad behavior and should be punished too. If an employee can't speak out and do the job they were sworn to do and protect our children, then they need to step down and allow a morally just and honest citizens to take their place.

You can hold me in contempt. You can force me to pay funds that in all reality should have been a child support payment for Kelsie, yet I'm funding a lawyer who is wrongfully keeping a mother and child apart with no reason at all. What sense does it make to pay a lawyer over paying child support? The court system has completely failed. They not only failed Kelsie and I, but they continue to fail thousands of targeted parents and their child when all they want and need is to spend some nice quality uninterrupted time together. Yet the court would rather continue to make sure to stop any relationship from forming and intentionally denies that child in getting to know half of who they are and where they come from.

Start speaking up!!! Don't be silenced. Do your job and start protecting our children.

Thanks for listening and allowing me to rant. The courts take away our children, don't let them take away your voice too. Be loud...

(Only a few selected members of my PRIVATE Parental Alienation group can view this thread. So going forward if any threads are submitted to the courts in attempt to give me jail time, it's because the Plaintiff himself continues to violate my privacy rights, he continues to stalk myself and others targeted parents, and he continues to play the part of a targeted parent to join groups he has no reason to be in other than to continue to further reek havoc in the Defendant's life and cause harm)

#FamilyCourtCorruption
#allinittogether
#myrightstaken
#speakupforyourchild
#beloud

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