After a year of evidentiary hearings the judge has to either decide to review every singe hearing tape for a year of those hearings with the referee he assigned, or redo the whole evidentiary hearing altogether.
If judges, cps workers, and those of authority take the time to look back years down the road to realize how their rulings have negativity and significantly altered a child's entire individuality and ruined their childhood that lead to issues as adults, I wonder if more people of authority (judges) would educate themselves of the heartache PARENTAL ALIENATION has on the ENTIRE FAMILY and completely destroys a their entire childhood on into adulthood. The pain never ends. The emotional and psychological abuse does not go away. You live with this forever.
Ever wonder why there are THREE JUDGES on "Hot Bench" who know every single detail and takes the time to recite every important fact before the Plaintiff and the Defendant for said small minor disputes before even starting the hearing?
Then, in family court, ONE AND ONLY ONE JUDGE is assigned to hear your case every single time you have to keep going back to court before the court order is never followed and there aren't consequences for their actions ever put in place to make them stop the abuse. So the abuse continues. And I keep coming back to the same repetitive thing. I wasn't even given a chance to be a mother to my daughter right from the beginning.
Why have 12 factors when ONLY ONE decided Kelsie's fate - Established Custodial Environment, ONE FACTOR! What about the other eleven factors? Why even have the other eleven?
How can ONE person (judge) decide the entire fate of a child but they use THREE JUDGES to decide minor disputes that may not even include children?
Whats wrong with this picture? What's wrong with family court? What's wrong with the entire last six years of my case and I still have supervised visits yet no one seems to know why. The referee even asks during a hearing why that is because no one could answer the why nor do they seem to know or understand this judge's rulings and court orders. Six years? Supervised visits? All travel expenses of a 12 hour trip one way trip one weekend a month on me? I pay child support yet can't even speak to my daughter?
Yet Kelsie's father can travel to South Carolina every month to see his mom and make it just fine in his new car or on his new motorcycles? And not tell me my daughter is so much closer to me? Doesn't even allow me the opportunity to see my child if only for a few minutes?
What is wrong with this ENTIRE picture FOR THE LAST SIX YEARS? Going on seven....