After over an entire year of having this same judge since 2014 appoint a referee in June of 2019 to hear my case, and hear hearing after hearing after hearing, and hours of testimony, and money spent traveling back and forth to Michigan from North Carolina for some of these hearings, I already called the outcome. I knew it. Any parenting time I get my ex is going to object to every single time. Why? As he states, "expanding parenting time doesn't make sense."

So now the judge has a decision to make. To my surprise the judge did deny both their ex parte motions he filed to stop my October and November weekends. But now the judge either has to go back and review every single hearing and listen to hours upon hours of testimony given since June of 2019 and keep the order as the referee wrote it OR the judge may decide to redo the whole evidentiary hearing altogether and drag out this never ending battle of parental alienation. How can anyone in the court system not see exactly what my ex has done the last years. They turn a blind eye. 

If you know you have a parent who is going to object to everything, what is the point of going through yet another year of hearings other than just to cost me more time with my daughter and keep taking my money with the same results? I'm seriousz, What is the point? Why are we wasting time when a judge knows my ex objects to every single thing. There has to be something to stop all the objections at some point and realize he is the problem and always has been. 

With this route, my daughter will be 18 by the time I finally get to actually spent long term quality UNSUPERVISED time with her. But I know Kelsie loves me and I know she misses me and that's enough to make me keep fighting. I see how much she is struggling herself and she deserves so much better. I love you too Kelsie Lynn. 

Fyi, My ex is now trying to take away Kelsie coming to North Carolina for Christmas for the first time ever since kidnapping her at 15 months and fleeing to a different state for another woman. He will never stop until the right xourt appointed people "wake up" and start making some long overdue necessary changes if she is to ever stand a chance at a normal and happy life. 

And next time you undermine my wishes and be disrespectful to me infront of Kelsie and teach her she doesn't have to listen to me, that you're the "mom", and I'm just "Kim", I am not responsible for anything that happens to any tracker phone. Tracking our every move is in invasion of our privacy rights. And when I've had protection orders on both of you for harassment and threatening my life, I do have rights to protect my safety and the safety of my daughter. That phone will not be an issue again.