I’m writing this not to change the world, but to make a small change that could go the distance.

Back in July, my mum suffered a cardiac arrest. After nearly two weeks in and out of ICU, she never woke up from her coma. As you can imagine, we were heartbroken — sleepless nights and endless tears. Through it all, I had my little boy, Reuben — my cat — by my side. He had also been there for me through my most recent breakup — my silent companion.

He slept next to my pillow every night, comforting me when I needed it most. He’s usually independent, but during that time, he never left my side.

A month later, I noticed Reuben was drinking more water and losing weight. I took him to the vet — and the next day, I got the call no pet owner ever wants to hear. The tests showed kidney disease. He was only 1 year and 10 months old.

Then I realised what had happened: the flowers that friends had sent after my mum’s passing had lilies in them — a plant highly toxic to cats.

I don’t blame anyone. It’s hard not to blame myself. Yes, I was aware that lilies are toxic — but when you lose the biggest support of your life, that detail doesn’t even cross your mind.

Despite all the care, special diets, and emergency visits, Reuben’s kidneys failed. I said goodbye to my best friend only three months after saying goodbye to my mum. This has been the hardest year of my life. I’ve never felt this much pain — helpless, hopeless, and heartbroken.
I’m writing this only hours after burying my best friend.

Now, I want to make sure no one else has to go through what I did.

I’m asking for mandatory pet-safety warnings on flowers that are toxic to animals — in every florist shop, supermarket, and online store. This could be as simple as:

A small label stating “Toxic to Cats/Dogs”
A poster near checkout
Or a warning note on online product pages
It’s not much to ask for, but it could save lives.

Statistics show that more than half of all flowers are gifted — and many people have no idea how dangerous some varieties can be for their or others’ pets. Even a small warning could make a world of difference.

Imagine a kind, loving gesture that turns your world upside down. I don’t want that for anyone — and I know you wouldn’t either.

If this petition helps even one person avoid the heartbreak I am going through, then it’s worth it — for Reuben. 💙

Please share this with other pet lovers, florists, and your community.
I am in Australia but if this can reach other countries then together, we can protect the animals who bring us so much love and comfort.

Thank you for this moment of time.