Reform the Regulations at Kingswood Remembrance Park and other Places of Rest Nationwide
Reform the Regulations at Kingswood Remembrance Park and other Places of Rest Nationwide
The Issue
Eight months ago, a sudden tragedy struck our family. My nephew Jude Mark Moore only 19 years old, passed away unexpectedly. The pain of his loss was unbearable for all of us, but especially for his mother - my sister. For months she couldn't bear to visit Jude's grave at Kingswood Remembrance Park; the sight of a mound of earth marking her son's resting place was too much to bear.
It wasn't until my parents placed decorative stones, small solar lights and edging around the grave that she could finally find some peace in visiting him there. These simple yet meaningful additions transformed a stark reminder of loss into a comforting space where we could remember Jude and celebrate his life.
However, under current regulations at Kingswood Remembrance Park these personal touches are not allowed - an unnecessary restriction that adds to the grief already burdening bereaved families like ours.
We have been informed by letter that the items that don’t meet regulations must be removed from Jude’s grave by the 19th of November 2023, if we fail to do this the letter informs us that they will be removed by a South Gloucestershire council officer.
We believe it is essential for individuals to be able to personalize their loved ones' gravesites in ways that help them cope with their loss and maintain connections with those who have passed on. It is not just about aesthetics; it is about mental health and emotional wellbeing during one of life's most challenging times.
We are therefore calling on the management team at Kingswood Remembrance Park to reform their regulations so as to allow families more freedom in how they choose to commemorate their loved ones.
Please sign this petition if you agree that people should have more control over how they grieve and remember their loved ones. Your support can make a difference in helping bereaved families find solace during such difficult times.
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The Issue
Eight months ago, a sudden tragedy struck our family. My nephew Jude Mark Moore only 19 years old, passed away unexpectedly. The pain of his loss was unbearable for all of us, but especially for his mother - my sister. For months she couldn't bear to visit Jude's grave at Kingswood Remembrance Park; the sight of a mound of earth marking her son's resting place was too much to bear.
It wasn't until my parents placed decorative stones, small solar lights and edging around the grave that she could finally find some peace in visiting him there. These simple yet meaningful additions transformed a stark reminder of loss into a comforting space where we could remember Jude and celebrate his life.
However, under current regulations at Kingswood Remembrance Park these personal touches are not allowed - an unnecessary restriction that adds to the grief already burdening bereaved families like ours.
We have been informed by letter that the items that don’t meet regulations must be removed from Jude’s grave by the 19th of November 2023, if we fail to do this the letter informs us that they will be removed by a South Gloucestershire council officer.
We believe it is essential for individuals to be able to personalize their loved ones' gravesites in ways that help them cope with their loss and maintain connections with those who have passed on. It is not just about aesthetics; it is about mental health and emotional wellbeing during one of life's most challenging times.
We are therefore calling on the management team at Kingswood Remembrance Park to reform their regulations so as to allow families more freedom in how they choose to commemorate their loved ones.
Please sign this petition if you agree that people should have more control over how they grieve and remember their loved ones. Your support can make a difference in helping bereaved families find solace during such difficult times.
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Petition created on 26 October 2023