I have heartbroken after having my children taken away from my by social services. I was abused not only physical but psychical too by my ex partner a few years, He blamed me for anything what wrong happened in his life. I wanted leave him with my kids, go away but I was too afraid because he knew all my family addresses. I knew if I would do what he didn't accept, he could find me anywhere . So I decided conitue the relationship till that day, the day Social service took my kids away. We had round 2 years different social workers Most of them didn't even bother to tell me that they were moving on, not that it would have made much of a difference to me at the time.I didn't speak English also when social workers visited us my ex partner was translator for me, so till today I'm not sure if he translated the truth. He told me that We need keep together because they will take the kids, I was scared, they knew I don't speak English and noone of them offered me a translator, We had a few social worker and they didn't offered me a meeting or chat face to face, only with me. I was afraid do anything because my ex partner was always next to me.

Now my English is enough good to prove that I really wanted best for my kids.

  My kids are under Child Arrangements Order and I have applied to discharge the child arrangement order and waiting for a date of hearing.

 My greatest wish is that my kids always know how much I love them, and that they walk through the rest of their life knowing I’ll always be there for them anyway I can!

 

My kids really want to back to home, to their friends and area. They even asked the social worker when they will back to home, he replied he will ask his Manager . My children really misses their house, my daughter Juliet she is getting worse every moths I visits them. She is cry more with no reason, I see sad in her eye like she forgot how to smile, My son William he asked me when We will plant flower again in our garden... he just love it!!

Please help me prove to my social service that I'm a good mum, I never hurt my kids and they will be  safe under my care, They keep say that I still have contact with my ex partner and that We are still in a relationship but I wouldn't make such a massive mistake to be with person like him again, I was living in a scare life a several years, I started day without smile and finished in a tears....Im trying be strong person for my children  Im working at tesco, I have 3 bedrooms house and 2 separate bedrooms for my kids, I have done a few courses. My priority are only my kids, I can anything for my children..

My name is one of many voices out there fighting an unjust system. As an abuse survivor, I have battled more than physical and emotional hardship; I have lost my most precious relationships, my children - innocently pulled away because of circumstances that were beyond their control and mine. Today, I am seeking your support not only for myself but for many other parents who have been unjustly separated from their children as a result of abuse, to regain our parental rights.

Abuse victims often find themselves caught in a double bind - not only do we bear the brunt of our abusers, but we also risk losing our children. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 15 children in the UK are exposed to intimate partner violence annually, and 90% of these children are eyewitnesses to this violence. They, along with us, become unwitting victims. The very structures meant to protect us often fail us.

Our cry for justice deserves recognition. Our plea for our children should not be drowned out. Our purpose is simple: to reunite with our children, to rebuild the bonds that were so unjustly severed, to let our children know that our love for them remains undiminished despite our trials.

Join me in demanding that parents who are victims of abuse should not be penalized by the loss of our children, but rather supported in our journey towards healing and reclaiming our families. Sign this petition - let's protect parental rights and ensure that no one is victimized twice.