If a parent doesn’t assume responsibility or neglect the child ,the grandparents should be the next online to have the right to take care of this child.The neglecting parent should have a say where this this child goes especially if this child will be sent to an outsider .This will definitely create physiological issues for this child and create a separation within this family .This child will we pulled from friends and and extended family ,not to mention how the family will feel when this child is sent away .Grandparent should have more rights to grandchildren other being a backup plan especially when the grandparent wants to be involved .Having a grandchild is like a first live all over and to be denied kills something inside you.