Every Child Deserves Both Parents: Protect Fathers’ Access and Shared Parenting in India

Every Child Deserves Both Parents: Protect Fathers’ Access and Shared Parenting in India

The Issue

In India, too many fathers are being pushed out of their children’s lives while the legal system moves slowly, unevenly, and often without enough protection against misuse. For many men, this is not just a custody dispute — it becomes a life-shattering experience of blocked access, false allegations, financial drain, reputational loss, and emotional collapse. The child suffers the deepest wound, but the father often carries it in silence until the damage becomes irreversible.

This campaign is about more than one case. It is about a broken system that too often allows children to become leverage in adult conflict. It is about fathers being denied meaningful access to their children, being kept away from school and medical information, and being forced to fight for years just to remain present in their child’s life. It is about the pain of a parent who is reduced to a visitor in his own child’s world.

India has already seen reform discussions on shared parenting and child-centered custody. The Law Commission’s Report No. 257 called for shared parenting, joint custody options, parenting plans, mediation, and better access rights, recognizing that children are often the worst affected when parental conflict becomes a legal battle. Yet in practice, meaningful father-child contact remains difficult, and the law still too often fails the child and the father at the same time.

There is also a darker side that cannot be ignored: false or malicious cases can destroy a man’s life. They can drain his savings, wreck his mental health, and leave him isolated, humiliated, and desperate. India must seriously confront the misuse of family-law processes and ensure real consequences for knowingly false allegations, fabricated evidence, and abuse of legal process.

This is why we are calling for urgent reform:

  1. shared parenting and meaningful access as the default where safe and possible,
  2. mandatory access to school and medical records for both parents unless there is a proven child-safety reason,
  3. strict scrutiny of false or exaggerated allegations,
  4. faster remedies when a parent is being wrongly blocked from the child,
  5. and legal reform that treats father-child separation as a serious child-welfare issue, not a private inconvenience.

There are men who have broken under this pressure. There are fathers who have fallen into depression, suicidal thoughts, and even suicide after prolonged family conflict, false cases, and denial of access to their children. We cannot keep pretending that these are isolated stories. They are warning signs of a system that is too slow to protect the innocent and too weak to protect children.

A child should never be punished by being cut off from a loving father. A father should never have to beg to be part of his child’s life. And justice should never allow falsehoods to destroy a family by calling it "procedure".

We demand a child-centered and father-inclusive family system in India — one that protects children, punishes deliberate falsehood, and restores dignity to parents who are fighting only to stay in their child’s life.

We demand:

  1. Shared parenting and child access as the norm where safe and possible.
  2. Fast remedies when a father is blocked from seeing his child.
  3. Mandatory access to school and medical records for both parents.
  4. Strict penalties for knowingly false allegations and fabricated evidence.
  5. Stronger mental-health awareness in family litigation.
  6. Real accountability for misuse of family law by any party.

Please sign this petition to support shared parenting, father-child access, and accountability for misuse of family law in India.

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The Issue

In India, too many fathers are being pushed out of their children’s lives while the legal system moves slowly, unevenly, and often without enough protection against misuse. For many men, this is not just a custody dispute — it becomes a life-shattering experience of blocked access, false allegations, financial drain, reputational loss, and emotional collapse. The child suffers the deepest wound, but the father often carries it in silence until the damage becomes irreversible.

This campaign is about more than one case. It is about a broken system that too often allows children to become leverage in adult conflict. It is about fathers being denied meaningful access to their children, being kept away from school and medical information, and being forced to fight for years just to remain present in their child’s life. It is about the pain of a parent who is reduced to a visitor in his own child’s world.

India has already seen reform discussions on shared parenting and child-centered custody. The Law Commission’s Report No. 257 called for shared parenting, joint custody options, parenting plans, mediation, and better access rights, recognizing that children are often the worst affected when parental conflict becomes a legal battle. Yet in practice, meaningful father-child contact remains difficult, and the law still too often fails the child and the father at the same time.

There is also a darker side that cannot be ignored: false or malicious cases can destroy a man’s life. They can drain his savings, wreck his mental health, and leave him isolated, humiliated, and desperate. India must seriously confront the misuse of family-law processes and ensure real consequences for knowingly false allegations, fabricated evidence, and abuse of legal process.

This is why we are calling for urgent reform:

  1. shared parenting and meaningful access as the default where safe and possible,
  2. mandatory access to school and medical records for both parents unless there is a proven child-safety reason,
  3. strict scrutiny of false or exaggerated allegations,
  4. faster remedies when a parent is being wrongly blocked from the child,
  5. and legal reform that treats father-child separation as a serious child-welfare issue, not a private inconvenience.

There are men who have broken under this pressure. There are fathers who have fallen into depression, suicidal thoughts, and even suicide after prolonged family conflict, false cases, and denial of access to their children. We cannot keep pretending that these are isolated stories. They are warning signs of a system that is too slow to protect the innocent and too weak to protect children.

A child should never be punished by being cut off from a loving father. A father should never have to beg to be part of his child’s life. And justice should never allow falsehoods to destroy a family by calling it "procedure".

We demand a child-centered and father-inclusive family system in India — one that protects children, punishes deliberate falsehood, and restores dignity to parents who are fighting only to stay in their child’s life.

We demand:

  1. Shared parenting and child access as the norm where safe and possible.
  2. Fast remedies when a father is blocked from seeing his child.
  3. Mandatory access to school and medical records for both parents.
  4. Strict penalties for knowingly false allegations and fabricated evidence.
  5. Stronger mental-health awareness in family litigation.
  6. Real accountability for misuse of family law by any party.

Please sign this petition to support shared parenting, father-child access, and accountability for misuse of family law in India.

The Decision Makers

Ministry of Law and Justice, Government of India
Ministry of Law and Justice, Government of India

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