Our journey began when we had to say goodbye to our firstborn son, Kaylem James, only three days after his birth, due to a rare medical complication. In the wake of his passing, painting rocks became a therapeutic outlet for our family—each stone a canvas capturing the love we have for Kaylem. This practice has not just been a source of solace for our family, but for many others affected by infant loss in our community. 

The experience of losing a child is earth shattering, and it creates a void that is impossible to fill. But through communal activities, like painting rocks, families can find a small measure of healing and connection. We believe Boulder County, like other cities across the country, can play a pivotal role in this healing process by establishing a memorial rock garden. This space will serve as a sanctuary where families can come together, express their grief, celebrate lives of their children, and find a network of support among others who understand their pain.

A memorial rock garden would provide a tangible and lasting tribute to the lives of infants who have passed. It would stand not only as a place of individual reflection but also as a collective monument to the strength and resilience of families united in tragedy. The garden will offer a peaceful environment where people can create, leave, and view memorial rocks, fostering a community of shared understanding and remembrance.

In addition to its emotional benefits, such a garden can raise awareness about infant loss, prompting necessary conversations around a topic often shrouded in silence. By supporting this initiative, Boulder County will be taking a compassionate step towards acknowledging the profound loss experienced by so many and offering a space for unity and healing.

We urge local government officials, community leaders, and residents to come together in support of this vital project. Let's create a space that truly honors those who have to leave their families far too soon and provides hope and healing. Please sign this petition to make the memorial rock garden a reality, honoring those affected by infant loss with a lasting tribute of love and support.