CBSE & CISCE: Direct Schools to Hold Training for Students to Fight Child Sexual Abuse

The Issue

A 10-year-old boy asked me a question that shook me to my core.

I had just conducted a session on personal safety for school boys in Hyderabad. They were made aware of what safe and unsafe touch is, what non-touch abuse and online abuse look like, they learnt the power of saying NO and more importantly, which "trusted adults" - mostly parents, teachers or grandparents - to go to in case they see or face abuse. Sign my petition.

Just as I was patting myself on the back for a successful session, a young boy, not more than 10 years old, walked up to me and asked; "Didi, whom should I go to if I can't go to my parents?"

In my four years of working extensively in the field of Child Sexual Abuse (CSA), that question meant only one thing: one of his parents was the perpetrator!

My team and I immediately took the necessary action. Our first priority was to get the boy to a safe space. The investigation revealed that his father had been abusing him at home for almost two and a half years. Sign my petition

The sad truth is that I’ve come across many children who go through what this boy did. All of them are helpless, silenced and traumatized. But very few show the courage that this boy did by speaking out and asking for help.

As adults, it’s not enough to provide children with just roti, kapda, makaan (food, clothing and shelter). We need to give them a space, a voice and a language of safety.

As children spend more time in school than at home, I believe schools should take the lead in spreading awareness on reporting child sexual abuse. That is why I have started this petition. 

Sign my petition asking CBSE and CISCE, two of the biggest boards in India, to release a circular to all affiliated schools to annually give compulsory training to fight child sexual abuse in an age-appropriate-manner for all classes. 

I believe both boards already understand the importance of such a program because of their past records. In 2017, CBSE issued a circular asking schools to popularize e-POCSO boxes (for children to anonymously report child sexual abuse cases) and screen the film ‘Komal’ (on the same theme).

However, we need to empower our children further by giving them the knowledge and language to fight. The more we talk to our children about it, the more they will understand it and become comfortable reporting it.

As CBSE has 22,799 schools under its umbrella and CISCE has over 2300, let’s urge them to lead by example and become a pioneering role model for other boards.

Sign my petition today and give every child a voice. Let’s #BreakTheSilence

(The image I have used above is from a workshop on child safety that I had conducted in Hyderabad in 2019.)

 

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Chhavi DawarPetition Starter

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The Issue

A 10-year-old boy asked me a question that shook me to my core.

I had just conducted a session on personal safety for school boys in Hyderabad. They were made aware of what safe and unsafe touch is, what non-touch abuse and online abuse look like, they learnt the power of saying NO and more importantly, which "trusted adults" - mostly parents, teachers or grandparents - to go to in case they see or face abuse. Sign my petition.

Just as I was patting myself on the back for a successful session, a young boy, not more than 10 years old, walked up to me and asked; "Didi, whom should I go to if I can't go to my parents?"

In my four years of working extensively in the field of Child Sexual Abuse (CSA), that question meant only one thing: one of his parents was the perpetrator!

My team and I immediately took the necessary action. Our first priority was to get the boy to a safe space. The investigation revealed that his father had been abusing him at home for almost two and a half years. Sign my petition

The sad truth is that I’ve come across many children who go through what this boy did. All of them are helpless, silenced and traumatized. But very few show the courage that this boy did by speaking out and asking for help.

As adults, it’s not enough to provide children with just roti, kapda, makaan (food, clothing and shelter). We need to give them a space, a voice and a language of safety.

As children spend more time in school than at home, I believe schools should take the lead in spreading awareness on reporting child sexual abuse. That is why I have started this petition. 

Sign my petition asking CBSE and CISCE, two of the biggest boards in India, to release a circular to all affiliated schools to annually give compulsory training to fight child sexual abuse in an age-appropriate-manner for all classes. 

I believe both boards already understand the importance of such a program because of their past records. In 2017, CBSE issued a circular asking schools to popularize e-POCSO boxes (for children to anonymously report child sexual abuse cases) and screen the film ‘Komal’ (on the same theme).

However, we need to empower our children further by giving them the knowledge and language to fight. The more we talk to our children about it, the more they will understand it and become comfortable reporting it.

As CBSE has 22,799 schools under its umbrella and CISCE has over 2300, let’s urge them to lead by example and become a pioneering role model for other boards.

Sign my petition today and give every child a voice. Let’s #BreakTheSilence

(The image I have used above is from a workshop on child safety that I had conducted in Hyderabad in 2019.)

 

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Chhavi DawarPetition Starter

The Decision Makers

Shannon Dona Massar
Shannon Dona Massar
Co-Founder and Director, Faith Foundation, Shillong
Responded
Hi Chaavi, Faith Foundation an organisation based in Shillong has been conducting Personal Safety Education to prevent child sexual abuse in several schools. We started implementing the program since the year 2013 due to a rise in the number of child sexual abuses cases in the State of Meghalaya. Teaching children about safe and unsafe touches and situations, teaching them about personal boundaries and teaching them most importantly to speak up and report to a trusted adult is the only way to keep them safe. Over the years of the work of the organisation, we have had tremendous support from the schools we work with and children too have gained the knowledge to keep themselves safe and we have had children come up to us after sessions to share their unsafe experiences. I endorse your petition as it is the need of the hour and I applaud you for your perseverance as you continue to move forward in your petition. We need more people like you to break the silence surrounding child sexual abuse!!!
Pranaadhika Sinha Devburman
Pranaadhika Sinha Devburman
CEO-Founder, One Million Against Abuse
Responded
I support Chhavi Dawar's 'Break the Silence' campaign as I feel that Personal Safety Education is an urgent need in order to keep our children safe from exploitation. I would request every individual to please sign and share to ensure that our education system includes PSE on a priority basis. Pranaadhika Sinha Devburman Founder-CEO One Million against Abuse
Sahida Khatun
Sahida Khatun
Founder, Safe School Life, Kolkata
Responded
In India every 15 minutes a child is getting abused and we are still in silence. The emotional impact of exposure to violence is neglected and therefore untreated. Yet the impact of exposures to violence is profound and long-lasting. Our safeschool. life initiative promotes an open forum to talk about the required measures to ensure physical, sexual and emotional well-being of the students. In West Bengal, we have identified 3 major problem areas on student’s safety 1. Right tools for parents and teachers to educate their wards/students on personal safety. 2. Right knowledge and tools for children to protect themselves from the perpetrator. 3. Right language and tool to report abuse. I am following Chaavi’s work since last 8 months. I found her way of empowering students with right knowledge and language is absolutely amazing. She has reached almost 30K students through her #BreakTheSilence initiative. I feel this kind of training should be conducted in West Bengal too. Indeed, it should be conducted in every corner of the country and in different languages. So I completely endorse Chaavi’s campaign - asking CBSE to mandate Personal Safety training to fight child sexual abuse. It is the need of the hour.
Dr. Keerthi Bollineni
Dr. Keerthi Bollineni
President, Vasavya Mahila Mandali
Responded
Every child is precious for this country. Future citizens to be grown with quality education which includes safe environment. Strongly appeal to CBSE to strictly initiate safety measures in all schools in India. Other private and state government run schools follow CBSE.
Sujitha S.
Sujitha S.
Founder, Milliondots.Org
Responded
Recent research has found out that 1 in 9 girls and 1 in 53 boys experience sexual abuse. Child sexual abuse is a widespread problem. Tamilnadu is no exception. On average, one news about child abuse comes to light once in two months. There are many abuse cases that go without getting reported. It’s painful to watch children suffer the pain and trauma. Though the Government has come up with few initiatives to address the issue, a policy/rule from the government alone isn’t enough to address the issue. Schools have a direct connection to children as children spend more time on school premises, I think schools can take a lead when it comes to creating awareness about child sexual abuse. In addition, if personal safety is also taught in school, the issue will be addressed from all sides. We at the Million Dots Foundation work closely with children. We are very thankful to Chhavi Dawar for taking up this cause and addressing the issue at the national level. In the coming days, we hope the same is adopted across all the boards and more children benefit from it. Thank you, Sujitha S. Founder, Milliondots.org

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