Demand Action Against Parental Alienation and Protect Children's Mental Health

The Issue

We need to do more to protect Fathers from Child Alienation. 

Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse that often occurs during custody battles, where one parent manipulates a child into rejecting or fearing the other parent.

Parental Alienation is a complex issue that can arise from a variety of factors, such as unresolved conflict between parents, mental health issues, and an unhealthy need for control.

Parental alienation also known as PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) can be considered a form of emotional or psychological abuse towards a child. It involves one parent attempting to interfere with or undermine the child's relationship with the other parent, often leading to the child feeling confused, guilty, and emotionally distressed.

Many studies suggest that mothers are more likely to be the primary caregiver in a family, which could potentially lead to situations where they have more opportunities to engage in parental alienation.

In most cases, the mother will abuse her position of having primary physical custody and engage in a campaign of Parental Alienation to gain custody of a child and/or exclude involvement by the father. In other cases the mother wants the father out of the way to start a new life, the mother wants more of the money and assets than she is entitled to and uses the children as pawns to achieve this.

Fathers are particularly vulnerable to child alienation, as they are often stereotyped as being less nurturing and more distant from their children than mothers. This harmful stereotype can lead to biased custody decisions, unequal access to parenting time, and the perpetuation of false accusations.

Child alienation has severe and long-lasting effects on both the father and the child. Fathers can experience depression, anxiety, and a sense of helplessness, while children can develop low self-esteem, difficulty forming healthy relationships, and even develop mental health problems later in life.

Therefore, it is important to recognize that parental alienation can be a form of child abuse in disguise, as it can cause significant emotional harm to the child. It is important for parents, legal professionals, and mental health providers to recognize and address parental alienation in order to protect the child's emotional well-being and promote healthy family relationships.

We, the undersigned, call on our government and legal systems to take action to protect fathers from child alienation. 

We demand that our government and legal systems take the following actions to protect fathers from child alienation:

  1. Implement education programs for judges, lawyers, and social workers on the harms of child alienation and how to recognize it
  2. Ensure that custody decisions are made based on the best interests of the child, and not on gender stereotypes or false accusations.
  3. Establish legal consequences for parents who engage in child alienation, including fines, community service, or even temporary loss of custody.
  4. Provide resources and support for fathers who are victims of child alienation, including counseling, legal aid, and access to parenting time.

Fathers have the right to be actively involved in their children's lives, and children have the right to love and be loved by both parents. It's time for our government and legal systems to take a stand against child alienation and protect fathers and children from this form of emotional abuse.

Are you a victim of Parental Alienation? You're not alone and here are some suggestions to help you in this struggle: 

We understand that PAS can be a difficult and emotionally challenging issue to deal with.

Here are some steps you can take to fight back against child alienation until common sense legislation is passed to stop this form of abuse by :

  1. Seek legal advice: If you are facing child alienation, it is important to seek legal advice from a family law attorney. They can provide you with guidance on your legal options and help you navigate the legal system.
  2. Document everything: Keep detailed records of all communication with your ex-partner, including emails, texts, and phone calls. Record any instances where your ex-partner has attempted to interfere with your relationship with your child.
  3. Focus on your child's needs: It is important to prioritize your child's needs and focus on building a healthy relationship with them. Try to maintain regular communication with your child and make an effort to spend quality time with them.
  4. Seek professional support: Consider seeking professional support from a therapist or counselor. They can provide you with tools and strategies to cope with the emotional impact of child alienation and help you rebuild your relationship with your child.
  5. Stay calm and consistent: It can be tempting to react emotionally to instances of child alienation, but it is important to remain calm and consistent in your approach. Focus on being a positive and supportive presence in your child's life, even if your ex-partner is not.

Fighting back against child alienation can be a long and difficult process, but by staying committed to your child and seeking support, you can overcome these challenges and rebuild your relationship with your child.

 

 

 

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The Issue

We need to do more to protect Fathers from Child Alienation. 

Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse that often occurs during custody battles, where one parent manipulates a child into rejecting or fearing the other parent.

Parental Alienation is a complex issue that can arise from a variety of factors, such as unresolved conflict between parents, mental health issues, and an unhealthy need for control.

Parental alienation also known as PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) can be considered a form of emotional or psychological abuse towards a child. It involves one parent attempting to interfere with or undermine the child's relationship with the other parent, often leading to the child feeling confused, guilty, and emotionally distressed.

Many studies suggest that mothers are more likely to be the primary caregiver in a family, which could potentially lead to situations where they have more opportunities to engage in parental alienation.

In most cases, the mother will abuse her position of having primary physical custody and engage in a campaign of Parental Alienation to gain custody of a child and/or exclude involvement by the father. In other cases the mother wants the father out of the way to start a new life, the mother wants more of the money and assets than she is entitled to and uses the children as pawns to achieve this.

Fathers are particularly vulnerable to child alienation, as they are often stereotyped as being less nurturing and more distant from their children than mothers. This harmful stereotype can lead to biased custody decisions, unequal access to parenting time, and the perpetuation of false accusations.

Child alienation has severe and long-lasting effects on both the father and the child. Fathers can experience depression, anxiety, and a sense of helplessness, while children can develop low self-esteem, difficulty forming healthy relationships, and even develop mental health problems later in life.

Therefore, it is important to recognize that parental alienation can be a form of child abuse in disguise, as it can cause significant emotional harm to the child. It is important for parents, legal professionals, and mental health providers to recognize and address parental alienation in order to protect the child's emotional well-being and promote healthy family relationships.

We, the undersigned, call on our government and legal systems to take action to protect fathers from child alienation. 

We demand that our government and legal systems take the following actions to protect fathers from child alienation:

  1. Implement education programs for judges, lawyers, and social workers on the harms of child alienation and how to recognize it
  2. Ensure that custody decisions are made based on the best interests of the child, and not on gender stereotypes or false accusations.
  3. Establish legal consequences for parents who engage in child alienation, including fines, community service, or even temporary loss of custody.
  4. Provide resources and support for fathers who are victims of child alienation, including counseling, legal aid, and access to parenting time.

Fathers have the right to be actively involved in their children's lives, and children have the right to love and be loved by both parents. It's time for our government and legal systems to take a stand against child alienation and protect fathers and children from this form of emotional abuse.

Are you a victim of Parental Alienation? You're not alone and here are some suggestions to help you in this struggle: 

We understand that PAS can be a difficult and emotionally challenging issue to deal with.

Here are some steps you can take to fight back against child alienation until common sense legislation is passed to stop this form of abuse by :

  1. Seek legal advice: If you are facing child alienation, it is important to seek legal advice from a family law attorney. They can provide you with guidance on your legal options and help you navigate the legal system.
  2. Document everything: Keep detailed records of all communication with your ex-partner, including emails, texts, and phone calls. Record any instances where your ex-partner has attempted to interfere with your relationship with your child.
  3. Focus on your child's needs: It is important to prioritize your child's needs and focus on building a healthy relationship with them. Try to maintain regular communication with your child and make an effort to spend quality time with them.
  4. Seek professional support: Consider seeking professional support from a therapist or counselor. They can provide you with tools and strategies to cope with the emotional impact of child alienation and help you rebuild your relationship with your child.
  5. Stay calm and consistent: It can be tempting to react emotionally to instances of child alienation, but it is important to remain calm and consistent in your approach. Focus on being a positive and supportive presence in your child's life, even if your ex-partner is not.

Fighting back against child alienation can be a long and difficult process, but by staying committed to your child and seeking support, you can overcome these challenges and rebuild your relationship with your child.

 

 

 

The Decision Makers

Assemblyman Colin Schmitt
New York State Assembly - District 99
Assemblyman Mike Lawler
New York State Assembly - District 97

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