Adultery and Concubinage, results into broken family.

          To become one is to become faithful, loyal, honest and trustworthy to whom do you want to be with eternally. But, why do some people doesn’t know how to contented? Why did they do things without even thinking what would be the impact into their lives? Why do they choose fleeting happiness? Why do they don’t think about their family? All I can say, being committed is totally complicated.

         On their wedding day, the bride and groom promise to be faithful to each other “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.” Sooner or later, all couples face the “worse” or “poorer” or “sickness” in their marriage. At these times of difficulty, married couples benefit tremendously from the support of their Church family, friends, and relatives. Conflicts is normal in marriage. But then, when it gets too much, it’s not good in relationship. The most common conflicts now that married couples facing is the situation in which one of their partners engage in having a mistress or an affair with another person. Misunderstanding and struggles came into existence. And it could be one of the factors they’ve separated. Maybe also, early marriage can be a factors too.

        Nowadays, marriage people do divorce. Having an affair towards another person when your married to someone is considered as a sin. It seems that you’re not been contented and you did not even value what you’ve promise to God, the vow you made, together. It is considered as a private crime which most of marriage people committed. Crime committed by a married woman who shall have sexual intercourse with a man not her husband, it could be charged as ADULTERY. And, crime committed by a married man who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, shall have sexual intercourse with her under scandalous circumstances can be charged as CONCUBINAGE. Then, when this related issues hits family, im sure the effect would not be good. There’s only two option, whether family was be still one, but not like the same as what they’ve used to trait one another or else, family will be destroyed. So, In this regulation, I firmly believe that this must be good to have. Because, this policy brief provides recommendations on how to address the inequalities in the law while still protecting the institution of marriage. So, I myself would say that this laws was really worth fighting for.

     In order to have an effective marriage, you must respect each other, appreciate your partner's strengths as well as their weaknesses, learn to value your marriage, and learn not to deal with temptation. Remember, all marriages are incompatible. All marriages are between people from different families, people who have a different view of things. The magic is to develop binocular vision, to see life through your partner’s eyes as well as through your own.”