My name is Amber Hartsook, and I’m writing as a grieving mother in the hope of making a change in our community that would mean the world to my family and others. My son, Treyton Maurice Hartsook, was born to be part of the Olathe South High School’s graduating class of 2026. Tragically, Treyton’s life was cut short due to a car accident while we were traveling as a family during winter break. Despite his premature departure, he attended school in the Olathe School District from kindergarten through his senior year, having been part of the community and making lifelong connections and memories.

Hearing Treyton's name spoken aloud at the commencement ceremony matters deeply to all of us who loved him and who were affected by his tragic passing. His name being announced is not just a gesture; it’s an act of acknowledgment—recognition of his life, his accomplishments, and the mark he left on his peers and teachers. Grief is a heavy burden for a family to bear, but knowing that your community stands with you to remember your loved one can make the intensity of that burden a bit more bearable.

Currently, the Olathe School District's policy does not allow for the names of students who have tragically passed away before their graduation date to be read as part of the commencement ceremony. This leaves families like mine without closure and robs well-deserved recognition from the students who were part of our community for their entire school journey.

We propose an amendment to this policy, advocating for a respectful and thoughtful inclusion of deceased students’ names as part of the graduation ceremonies. Such a policy would not only honor their memory but also provide comfort to grieving families while highlighting the community’s empathy and compassion. 

By allowing each student who has left this world too soon to be remembered formally during graduation, the Olathe School District would be embracing a meaningful change that reflects the values of unity and support.

Please sign this petition to urge the Olathe School District to amend their commencement policy and ensure that every student is given an opportunity for the recognition they deserve. Your support can help bring solace and a sense of completion to grieving families while honoring the legacy of every student.