The Right to Reconnect: Enforce Parental Responsibility for Rehabilitated Fathers

The Issue

Right to Reconnect: Let Rehabilitated Fathers Be Fathers

📢 We call on the Ministry of Justice, Family Courts, and Probation Services to:

  • Enforce Parental Responsibility rights for biological fathers after custody
  • Uphold the Farmer Review recommendations, protecting family ties

Support lived-experience-led programmes like Fathers With Futures
 
📜 Why This Matters: Trevor’s Real Story

Trevor served time for manslaughter.
While in prison, he reconnected with a childhood friend.
When he was granted home leave, he stayed at her family's home. She became pregnant.

Their child — their future — became part of Trevor’s parole plan. Probation backed it. So did the Ministry of Justice.

  • But on the very day they were meant to register the birth, he was kicked out.
  • His name never made it to the birth certificate.
  • He hasn’t seen his daughter since.
  • When he tried to go to court for contact and Parental Responsibility, his case was dismissed without even being heard.

 
🧱 This Isn’t Just Trevor’s Story — It’s National

Too many fathers return from prison ready to change, but face:

  • Court dismissals without due process
  • No support for safe reconnection
  • Old stereotypes that override evidence of rehabilitation
  • All while the child suffers from a broken bond.

The Farmer Review (2017, 2019) made it clear:

“The state must not be complicit in severing ties between father and child.”
— Lord Farmer
“Strengthening family ties is not a peripheral issue — it is fundamental to rehabilitation.”
— Farmer Review for Men, 2019

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/landmark-review-places-family-ties-at-the-heart-of-prison-reform

Yet courts still ignore it. Fathers still vanish from birth certificates.
Children still lose the chance to know who they are.

💬 Michael Groce, Founder – Fathers With Futures
“I took flak for not being there. But even when mothers agreed, the system made me a second-class citizen.

When I got custody of my son after his mum died, that’s when I knew what had to change.

Fathers With Futures is how we build that change.

Right to Reconnect is the movement that carries it.”
 
🔖 We Demand:
✅ A fair, heard application process for Parental Responsibility
✅ Family courts and CAFCASS to follow Farmer Review standards
✅ Probation to intervene where court failure risks family breakdown
✅ Fathers With Futures adopted as a national model for safe reconnection

 
🎯 This Is Not About the Past — It’s About the Future
Every child deserves identity, stability, and love

That begins with the right to know their father, especially when he’s fought hard to return.

 
✍️ Sign the petition.
📢 Share Trevor’s story.
🛠️ Support real solutions from those who lived it.

🔗 https://chng.it/cp4zn4kXgg

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🖤 Fathers With Futures – Real Men. Real Rights.

 

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Michael GrocePetition StarterBrought up in Tinworth House, on a rough housing estate in Vauxhall, London. Much of my life was spent time in and out of prison; throughout his life, accruing 50 convictions and 15 different spells in prison

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The Issue

Right to Reconnect: Let Rehabilitated Fathers Be Fathers

📢 We call on the Ministry of Justice, Family Courts, and Probation Services to:

  • Enforce Parental Responsibility rights for biological fathers after custody
  • Uphold the Farmer Review recommendations, protecting family ties

Support lived-experience-led programmes like Fathers With Futures
 
📜 Why This Matters: Trevor’s Real Story

Trevor served time for manslaughter.
While in prison, he reconnected with a childhood friend.
When he was granted home leave, he stayed at her family's home. She became pregnant.

Their child — their future — became part of Trevor’s parole plan. Probation backed it. So did the Ministry of Justice.

  • But on the very day they were meant to register the birth, he was kicked out.
  • His name never made it to the birth certificate.
  • He hasn’t seen his daughter since.
  • When he tried to go to court for contact and Parental Responsibility, his case was dismissed without even being heard.

 
🧱 This Isn’t Just Trevor’s Story — It’s National

Too many fathers return from prison ready to change, but face:

  • Court dismissals without due process
  • No support for safe reconnection
  • Old stereotypes that override evidence of rehabilitation
  • All while the child suffers from a broken bond.

The Farmer Review (2017, 2019) made it clear:

“The state must not be complicit in severing ties between father and child.”
— Lord Farmer
“Strengthening family ties is not a peripheral issue — it is fundamental to rehabilitation.”
— Farmer Review for Men, 2019

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/landmark-review-places-family-ties-at-the-heart-of-prison-reform

Yet courts still ignore it. Fathers still vanish from birth certificates.
Children still lose the chance to know who they are.

💬 Michael Groce, Founder – Fathers With Futures
“I took flak for not being there. But even when mothers agreed, the system made me a second-class citizen.

When I got custody of my son after his mum died, that’s when I knew what had to change.

Fathers With Futures is how we build that change.

Right to Reconnect is the movement that carries it.”
 
🔖 We Demand:
✅ A fair, heard application process for Parental Responsibility
✅ Family courts and CAFCASS to follow Farmer Review standards
✅ Probation to intervene where court failure risks family breakdown
✅ Fathers With Futures adopted as a national model for safe reconnection

 
🎯 This Is Not About the Past — It’s About the Future
Every child deserves identity, stability, and love

That begins with the right to know their father, especially when he’s fought hard to return.

 
✍️ Sign the petition.
📢 Share Trevor’s story.
🛠️ Support real solutions from those who lived it.

🔗 https://chng.it/cp4zn4kXgg

Powered by Booted and Rooted
🖤 Fathers With Futures – Real Men. Real Rights.

 

avatar of the starter
Michael GrocePetition StarterBrought up in Tinworth House, on a rough housing estate in Vauxhall, London. Much of my life was spent time in and out of prison; throughout his life, accruing 50 convictions and 15 different spells in prison

The Decision Makers

Local Family Court Judge
Local Family Court Judge
Alex Chalk KC MP
Alex Chalk KC MP
Lord Chancellor and Secretary of State for Justice
Jacky Tiotto
Jacky Tiotto
Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) CEO
The Rt Hon Edward Argar MP
The Rt Hon Edward Argar MP
Minister of State for Justice

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