There are hundreds of thousands of adoptees, and they’ve all been abused by adopters. Why is it so hard to change? Why are people not pushing for change? Instead of complaining on the internet, which is easy, we should be forcing the government to make changes to accommodate all the needs of the adoption triad not just the adopters who are abusing their misplaced authority at bothers birth family and adoptees expense, to make themselves feel good and to attempt to cover up their infertility. 

After adoptees have shown for decades that their mental health is declining from a result of biological isolation, especially broken openness, and yet there is still no provisions in the adoption acts to protect mother and babies bond, and nobody is doing anything about it? Why are we watching children being biologically abused and sitting back and saying oh well it’s perfectly legal? Why are we not demanding this changes? Why are adoption agencies not required to tell birth mothers about the statistics and impact of adoption on past birth mothers and adoptees and share the studies of the declining and severe mental health conditions of both parties as a result of adoption? Why are they not required to offer guardianship as an option? Why are they even proposing openness when the statistics show most open adoptions become closed? What kind of manipulative abuse is this on vulnerable desperate birth mothers , and why is it still happening?