FetLife, a popular online community for BDSM practitioners and enthusiasts, has built its reputation on the values of consent, education, exploration, and ethical community interaction. Many members join the platform with the hope of finding a safe space for connection, mentorship, and authentic community engagement.

Unfortunately, there is a disturbing trend emerging that threatens the very core of these values. Predatory behaviors and racial fetishization are being normalized within certain groups on the platform. These issues not only compromise the safety and well-being of vulnerable individuals but also undermine the inclusive and respectful environment that FetLife aims to foster.

Predatory targeting, which includes manipulative tactics to coerce or deceive individuals into uncomfortable or unwanted situations, deeply affects the community's trust and integrity. Furthermore, racial fetishization reduces individuals to harmful stereotypes based on their race, which is not only disrespectful but also perpetuates systematic discrimination.

FetLife must take immediate action to address and mitigate these issues by strengthening its community standards. Concrete measures should include:

1. Enhanced Monitoring and Reporting Systems: Implement advanced tools and systems that allow for real-time monitoring of discussions and the swift reporting of inappropriate behavior. This system should prioritize user safety and swiftly address any reported misconduct.

 Add: this would be their current system with an updated policy on what is monitored and reported.

2. Educational Initiatives: Create mandatory educational programs for new and existing members about consent, cultural sensitivity, and understanding power dynamics in relationships. These initiatives can be in the form of webinars, modules, or interactive sessions within the platform.

3. Clear and Enforced Consequences: Establish clear guidelines on what constitutes predatory and racially insensitive behaviors, and enforce strict consequences for violations. This should include temporary or permanent bans for repeated offenses.

4. Community Engagement and Feedback: Regularly engage with the community to gather feedback and insights on how to improve safety and inclusivity. This can be achieved through surveys, open forums, and feedback sessions.

5. Ban race play and predatory groups like 18-25 “young” “eager” and “easy,” groups.

By enacting these changes, FetLife will not only protect its existing members but will also position itself as a leading example of an ethical and responsible online community platform. This will enhance its reputation and attract more members who value a safe and respectful environment for personal exploration.

We urge FetLife to reaffirm its commitment to these core values by improving its community standards and protecting its members from predatory and racially insensitive behaviors. Please sign this petition to demand immediate action and ensure that FetLife remains a trusted and safe space for all.