My name is Arya 43 years old, Australian resident. Was in a marriage for 21 years with its highs and lows. Have 4 beautiful children. 
My relationship was not perfect but i tried my best in keeping it together after many betrayals and dishonesty from my ex wife. 
I was self employed running our own business which was doing great and for the love and respect that i had for my wife i made her the company director so she feels seen and valued. 

But as a result i was cheated on multiple times which resulted me being depressed with low self esteem, i forgave her many times and gave her many chances.

At the end of the relationship she filed for divorce and accused me of being violence and got an intervention order so I couldn’t even go back to our own house which i had worked so hard for and had listed our children in the intervention order which that was very hard for me to not see my children. 

She has started to brain wash my innocent children in making them believe that their dad is a narcissist, bipolar, toxic person, which is absolutely not true. I do not have a single police report or criminal history, have always been a good example in the community.

I tried in every way to sort this matter in a friendly way but she had used and abused the system by all means and has manipulated them too. 
I have no access to any sort of funds from the business we had, she has put a bad credit on my name by not making regular repayments on the property mortgage, i am unable to get funds sourced and don’t have a lawyer to represent me. 

I am in desperate need of a lawyer to fight for my rights and what i should be entitled to from the divorce. 

I have noticed violence against men is ignored.
Because of a general taboo, men are mostly discouraged to report any kind of abuse against them in their homes. Usually, when a man is injured or has bruises, the last thing people will think about it is that it has been caused by a woman.

Although this is true in most cases, domestic violence against men is also common. Domestic violence against men covers a broad range of violent acts. It comes in any form of abuse, such as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or financial abuse.

the fear of not being believed by authorities, and being falsely accused of being the perpetrator has left me incredibly vulnerable and has caused me severe anxiety and depression. 

Please share or help in any way possible.
I promise to pay it back to men or women who are going thru the same situation as me.