
A few updates & a call for emergency help. You all know that I have been involved in three different court cases regarding my ex-husband & the 17K in back child support owed. One case involving my son- he was requesting to be emancipated & asked for all arrears to go to him, the second is the child support case itself involving only me & my ex-husband: Orange County, NY issued hearings on my behalf- Zakk V Colvin, and the third involving Priceless Pets, who employed my ex-husband for four months in 2024 & paid him cash & lied to my child support caseworker & then had me charged with BOGUS CLAIMS THAT ARE OUTRIGHT LIES. Each case is in all of my updates.
THIS IS A NEW ONE THAT I WAS SERVED WITH ON SEPTEMBER 29TH. THIS IS MY SISTER INLAW (MY BROTHER'S WIFE).
IT STATES, "WITHIN THE JURISDICTION OF THIS COURT, WITH PURPOSE TO HARASS ANOTHER, MAKE OR CAUSE TO BE MADE A COMMUNICATION OR COMMUNICATIONS IN A MANNER LIKELY TO CAUSE ANNOYANCE OR ALARM, SPECIFICALLY BY POSTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA A BIBLE VERSE STATING THAT [HER INITIALS] SHOULD BE DROWNED, DIRECTING OTHERS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO STALK [HER INITIALS] ALONG WITH POSTING A PICTURE OF [HER INITIALS] AND WHERE SHE WORKS. IN VIOLATION NJSA 2C: 334A. A DISORDERLY PERSONS OFFENSE."
HERE IS THE BIBLE QUOTE THAT I POSTED:
"BUT IF ANYONE CAUSES ONE OF THESE LITTLE ONES WHO BELIEVE IN ME TO STUMBLE, IT WOULD BE BETTER FOR HIM TO HAVE A LARGE MILLSTONE HUNG AROUND HIS NECK AND TO BE DROWNED IN THE DEPTHS OF THE SEA." - MATTHEW 18:6
THIS IS ABUSE. THIS IS WHAT ABUSE LOOKS LIKE. (ALONG WITH THE PRICELESS PETS FIASCO.) THIS IS EXACTLY THE REASON WHY I WALKED AWAY FROM MY FAMILY IN THE FALL OF 2023. THIS IS ANOTHER BOGUS CHARGE THAT I'VE NOW HAD TO DEAL WITH. THIS POST WAS POINTED AT MY FAMILY & MY EX-HUSBAND & HIS FAMILY REGARDING THEM TURNING MY PRECIOUS SON AGAINST ME. THE BIBLE SAYS TO HONOR THY MOTHER & FATHER. I'VE BEEN IN ANGUISH OVER THIS SINCE DECEMBER, WHEN MY BOY WENT 'NO CONTACT' & I'VE POSTED ABOUT IT ALMOST DAILY. THE CONTEXT OF THIS BIBLE QUOTE GOES WITHOUT SAYING BECAUSE IT WAS ALL I'VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT!!!
FIRST, ONLY A NONBELIEVER WOULD TAKE THIS QUOTE LITERALLY!!!!
AND, NEVER, EVER HAVE I OR WOULD I, STATE THAT ANYONE SHOULD BE DROWNED OR HARMED IN ANY WAY!!! I AM NOT A VIOLENT PERSON. INFACT, I'M THE ONLY ONE IN MY IMMEDIATE FAMILY THAT HAS NEVER GOTTEN VIOLENT WITH FAMILY MEMBERS OR ANYONE ELSE!!! AND, ITS ALSO RICH THAT I NEVER EVEN PRESSED CHARGES ON MY BROTHER WHEN HE SLAPPED MY SON ACROSS THE FACE WHILE BABYSITTING HIM WHEN HE WAS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL!!! MY BROTHER WAS DRUNK!!! DO YOU KNOW WHY I DIDN'T?? BECAUSE AS MY SON WAS TELLING ME ABOUT IT- IN TEARS- HE COULD SEE HOW UPSET & ANGRY I WAS (OBVIOUSLY!) BUT BEGGED ME NOT TO DO ANYTHING BECAUSE THERE HAD ALREADY BEEN ANOTHER ALTERCATION WHERE MY BROTHER PHYSICALLY ATTACKED ME YEARS PRIOR (2012) & I DID PRESS CHARGES & THEN I DIDN'T SPEAK TO MY FAMILY FOR ALMOST A YEAR. HE DIDN'T WANT TO GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN. THIS IS ALL NO SECRET. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU SHOW EVIL PEOPLE GRACE!!!! I COULD GO ON & ON ABOUT THIS...
ALSO, NO, I DIDN'T 'DIRECT OTHERS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO STALK' HER!!! I HAD ASKED THAT- TO MY TONS OF FRIENDS WHO ARE MUTUAL FRIENDS WITH MY FAMILY- MY MOM, MY SIS, MY SISTER INLAW, MY AUNTS, COUSINS, ETC- THAT IF THEY SEE PICS OF MY BOY- TO PLEASE SEND ME THE PICS BECAUSE I HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT ANYTHING IN HIS LIFE!!!!!
ALSO, I DIDN'T 'POST A PICTURE OF MY SISTER INLAW & WHERE SHE WORKS'!!!! I STATED THAT AS A HIGH SCHOOL GUIDANCE COUNSELOR, ITS NOT EXACTLY MORAL TO 'COUNSEL' OR 'GUIDE' A HIGH SCHOOLER TO GO 'NO CONTACT' WITH THEIR MOTHER- WHO RAISED HIM ALONE FOR EIGHTEEN YEARS, WITH NO PHYSICAL OR FINANCIAL HELP, ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE WAS NEVER ANY ABUSE!!!!! AT ONE POINT I ASKED, 'WOULD SHE ADVISE ONE OF HER HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS TO DO THAT??? I THINK NOT!!!!' AND AS FOR POSTING PICS OF HER, MY GOD, SHE'S BEEN IN MY LIFE SINCE MY SON WAS ONE YEAR OLD!!! MY SOCIAL MEDIA IS FILLED WITH PICS OF HER!!!! I WOULD SAY THAT THIS WAS ALL AN EXTREMELY FAR STRETCH, BUT SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOING HERE. THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE.
NOT TO MENTION THAT MY SON MOVED IN WITH HER & MY BROTHER AFTER GRADUATING HIGH SCHOOL IN JUNE- AND THEY NOR ANYONE IN MY FAMILY TOLD ME!!!!! I HAD TO FIND OUT FROM A MOM IN TOWN!!! AND YES, I'VE STATED- AND STAND ON THIS- THAT SHE HAS ALWAYS ACTED AS IF SHE'S HIS MOM!!! EXTREMELY HURTFUL!!! AND SHE'S CAUSED COUNTLESS PROBLEMS & ISSUES THROUGH THE YEARS BETWEEN ME & MY FAMILY MEMBERS!!!
AS IF I'M NOT IN COMPLETE DESPAIR AND AGONY, AT MY LOWEST POINT IN LIFE, CAN BARELY BREATHE, BEYOND HEARTBROKEN... THIS IS WHAT SHE DOES.
ANYTHING TO KEEP ME & MY CHILD APART. MY CHILD WHO IS MY WHOLE WORLD, MY REASON FOR LIVING AND MY WHOLE PURPOSE IN LIFE!!!! HE HAS BEEN STOLEN FROM ME BY CRUEL & EVIL PEOPLE!!!! I HAVE SERIOUSLY HAD ENOUGH!!!
AND LET ME ALSO STATE THAT I HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH. I'M ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH. I NEVER LIED ABOUT HER OR ANYONE ELSE. AND I NEVER THREATENED ANYONE.
SO, NOW I'M PREPARING FOR THIS COURT MATTER THIS WEEK.
THIS HAS GOT TO STOP.
Also, regarding the NY child support hearings with my ex-husband. We had our THIRD HEARING THIS PAST WEEK. MY EX WAS A NO SHOW FOR ALL THREE.
Also, regarding the child support Trial with my son & my ex-husband... my ex actually DID show up for that one. It was on Zoom. Once again, WE HAD A JUDGE- (THIS TIME- JUDGE BOGAARD) THAT DID NOT READ OR OPEN ANY OF THE OVER FIFTEEN YEARS OF EVIDENCE THAT I SUBMITTED. WHICH TOOK DAYS & DAYS OF MY LIFE TO PREPARE- AGAIN. HE WAS CLUELESS. HE ALSO DIDN'T ALLOW ME TO SPEAK & EVEN MUTED MY MIC. HE THEN WENT ON TO MOCK ME FOR GETTING UPSET, TO MY SON & MY EX-HUSBAND!!! AND THEN, HE GOES ON TO TELL MY SON WHAT A WONDERFUL KID HE IS, DESPITE DEALING WITH ME- AS IF I HADN’T RAISED HIM BY MYSELF FOR EIGHTEEN YEARS!!!! BECAUSE HE DIDN'T BOTHER TO READ MY STATEMENT OR EVIDENCE- OR LET ME SPEAK!!!!! THIS WAS UNBELIEVABLE!!!! THERE ARE NO WORDS!!!!!! AND THIS DISGUSTING SYSTEM COULD HAVE PREVENTED ALL OF IT LAST YEAR!!!!!
THE OUTCOME WAS: HE EMANCIPATED MY SON. HE DID HONOR MY REQUEST FOR THE 17K TO BE SPLIT. I HAD ASKED FOR 5.5K & FOR THE REST TO GO TO MY SON. HE DID A 70/30 SPLIT WHICH IS CLOSE. I'LL GET 5K & MY SON WILL GET 12K.
BUT, GUESS WHAT ELSE THE JUDGE DID?? HE DID NOT GRANT MY REQUEST THAT MY EX-HUSBAND PAY THE TOTAL AMOUNT OWED, IN A LUMP SUM, AND ASAP (BECAUSE HE DIDN'T READ ALL OF THE DISGUSTING EVIDENCE THAT I SUBMITTED). INSTEAD??? HE ISSUED A NEW ORDER- THAT MY EX PAY $100/WEEK (DOWN FROM $200/WK- $150 SUPPORT, $50 ARREARS). ARE YOU KIDDING ME????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MY ONLY HOPE FOR THE TOTAL AMOUNT TO BE PAID IN FULL IS NOW ORANGE COUNTY, NY. STAY TUNED.
DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW HARD IT IS FOR ME, TO LITERALLY HAVE THE WILL TO LIVE??? YOU CAN LAUGH. YOU CAN PUT ME DOWN. GO AHEAD.
ALL I KNOW IS ABUSE!!!!!
LASTLY, IF ANYONE CAN HELP. THERE IS A LIEN ON OUR STORAGE UNIT AGAIN.
TODAY IS THE LAST DAY AND THEN ALL OF OUR BELONGINGS ARE GOING UP FOR AUCTION. MINE & MY SON'S WHOLE LIFE IS IN THERE. OUR WHOLE LIFE. I REACHED OUT TO MY FAMILY EARLIER TODAY ABOUT IT- SINCE IT INVOLVES MY SON GREATLY- AND NOTHING.
THE AMOUNT DUE TODAY IS $891.96. (I KNOW. I NEED A MIRACLE!!!!!!) I WILL BE POSTING ABOUT IT ON MY INSTAGRAM PG- https://www.instagram.com/tanya_a_zakk?igsh=dzFjMGU5cnlxMHN5
IT CAN BE PAID DIRECTLY OR MY VENMO IS @Tanya-Zakk
I AM SHOT. I AM SO BEYOND SHOT. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!