I have been trying to write this for two weeks. I have not had the emotional strength to do it. There’s so much going on and I have felt and currently feel like… evil just keeps winning in my life.
I also want to mention Charlie. When I heard about Charlie Kirk, it brought me to tears. If that’s not evil winning, I don’t know what is. I pray for his wife and young children. So unbelievably heartbreaking. That evil young man stole a future President from us. There’s no doubt in my mind about that. Charlie didn’t spread hate. He spoke the Truth. He used Scripture. People just don’t want to hear it because they don’t want to own up to their sins. Charlie got to meet Jesus on September 10, 2025. I am sure that he heard God say, “Well done, good and faithful servant”.
Another season has gone by without my son. It has been three seasons now... winter, spring and summer. I really can't describe this sadness. I don't know how to do this, nor do I want to. I don't know how to not be a mom. Every second of every day, I'm trying not to think of him, so that I don't break down. Can you imagine that? I can't even scroll on social media anymore. It's been months. My feed is just full of happy families, with their kids, celebrating milestones, all the things that my life once was. I have not felt real joy since the last time that I spent real time with my son. That was last Thanksgiving. Every second of every day, I am sad. Everything is painful. Going anywhere is painful, seeing moms with their kids, or just kids in general, hearing their voices, their laughter… wondering all day what my son is doing. You have to understand, my family is not speaking to me because I exposed them. NO ONE IS SPEAKING TO ME. I DON’T GET TO HEAR ANYTHING ABOUT MY SON. NOTHING. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. I call him everyday. It goes right to voicemail. I believe that I’m still blocked. I text him, I’ve left voicemails… nothing. I’ve emailed him. I know it’s a valid email address because it’s being used by the court clerks. Nothing. No response. I do not exist. This is so hurtful, so wrong, so unfair, so confusing, so mind boggling, so painful and so evil (no, I am not calling my child evil- its the action of what he is doing). This is not love. This is not the boy that I raised, the boy that I know and love beyond anything that words can describe, this is not the boy WHO KNOWS ME, WHO LOVED ME AND WHO CALLED ME HIS BEST FRIEND AND HIS HERO UP UNTIL LAST NOVEMBER.
He blocked me in early December.
My son’s birthday is on the 20th. In less than a week. I pray that I can see him.
For the past three weeks, I've made a conscious effort to read my Bible every single day. I’ve always prayed everyday. And for the past 2 years, I’ve been watching sermons everyday. That helps with knowing the Bible- Bible quotes, Bible stories… but, I was never really good at picking up my Bible daily. That has changed. It is helping me. I pray before I open it and ask Jesus to please speak to me. He usually does. I pray out loud the words of the Bible that really speak to me.
Regarding the child support matter with my son (and ex-husband)...
As you know, my son had me served with court papers in June, because he wants to emancipate himself and he is asking for the total amount of arrears owed in back child support and any support going further. Right now, the total amount of arrears owed is $16,868.11. 
I have been saying this whole time that my son absolutely deserves the amount owed from when we last resided together in early August 2024 (when we were forced to live apart due to financial issues ONLY, which has been HEARTBREAKING AND DEVASTATING). Also, I have stated that I have every intention of paying back what my son loaned me during the months before our eviction and even afterwards. I am also fine with the judge awarding him that total amount- in other words, that amount wouldn't go to me at all. Also, as you know, my son blocked me from all aspects of his life in early December 2024. He went ‘NO CONTACT’ out of nowhere. He has been coerced and brainwashed by my family (who I walked away from 2 years ago) and also my ex-husband, his fiance and his family. He also has been bribed by my ex-husband and his fiance and I believe his family. I have proof of this in emails and texts that were sent to me by my ex-husband and his fiance. They state that my ex willfully withheld the child support for years and that they have helped my son through this process, so that they can give my son the WHOLE AMOUNT OWED- AND IN CASH. This is unlawful and also unethical. The amount owed on the last day that me and my son resided together was roughly 11.4K.
{I ALSO WANT TO SHARE SOMETHING THAT HIT ME A FEW WEEKS AGO AND HIT ME HARD. AS I WAS LOOKING OVER MY SON’S MOTION FILING, IT READS: MY SON’S NAME V. TANYA ZAKK (ME) & MY EX-HUSBAND’S NAME (BECAUSE HE IS THE OBLIGOR).
THIS JUMPED OUT AT ME A FEW DAYS AFTER RECEIVING IT AND HIT ME LIKE A TON OF BRICKS. IT MADE ME CRY. WHAT WAS ONCE A FAMILY UNIT, FULL OF LOVE, EVEN THOUGH OUR MARRIAGE AND DWELLING WITH MY EX-HUSBAND DIDN’T LAST THAT LONG… THE PURE AND GOOD AND GODLY INTENTION THAT I HAD, TO RAISE MY SON TOGETHER WITH MY HUSBAND… THIS MADE ME SO FULL OF SORROW. IT WAS HARDER TO READ (AND HARDER TO SWALLOW) THAN READING MY FINAL DIVORCE AGREEMENT.}
I had to file my ‘response/ opposition’ to my son by August 28th. I first started with sitting down for about literally four or five hours, to think back, go back to old texts, etc.. and figure out exactly how much I owe my son. I always had every intention of doing this!!! HE KNOWS THIS. BUT, I ALSO HAVEN’T HAD THE ABILITY TO EVEN REITERATE THIS TO HIM, BECAUSE HE HAS ME BLOCKED!!! ANYWAY, I DID REALIZE THAT I OWE MY SON MORE THAN I THOUGHT. AFTER DOING ALL OF THE MATH, THE AMOUNT THAT I BELIEVE IS RIGHTFULLY OWED- TO ME- IS ONLY $5,546.00. Now, please understand that I AM STILL HOMELESS. I AM STILL STAYING WITH A FRIEND- TEMPORARILY- THREE HOURS AWAY FROM MY “HOMETOWN’, MY SON AND WHERE I WANT TO LIVE AGAIN!!!! I HAVE ZERO DOLLARS. I CAN’T EVEN AFFORD TO GO TO INTERVIEWS THERE BECAUSE THE ROUND TRIP IS SO EXPENSIVE!!! THIS AMOUNT, WHICH DOESN’T SEEM LIKE MUCH TO MOST PEOPLE, WOULD BE ENOUGH TO GET ME AN APARTMENT AND HELP ME FINANCIALLY WHILE I’M INTERVIEWING AND LOOKING FOR A PLACE. THROUGH THIS WHOLE NIGHTMARE, I HAVE NOT HAD THAT MUCH MONEY- AT ONCE- AND WHILE HAVING TEMPORARY SHELTER, TO PUT TOWARDS A *****HOME*****!!!!!!!! (ALSO TOWARDS PAST DUE BILLS, MOVERS, ETC). AGAIN, THE TOTAL OWED RIGHT NOW IS ROUGHLY 17K. MY SON WOULD GET WELL OVER $11,000.00. I worked on this and everything else, day and night for two and a half weeks, from the day that I was served. Every court matter regarding the child support takes such an insane amount of time, because in fifteen years of nothing being done by ‘NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES’ AND THE MORRIS COUNTY, NJ FAMILY COURT JUDGES… No enforcement, no arrests, barely any payments made, judges ordering zero dollars to be paid, etc, etc… and then add to it that I now had to defend myself against DOZENS OF FALSE ALLEGATIONS- FROM MY OWN CHILD, and go back and find old texts, emails, court orders, and on and on and on…. There were a few nights leading up to August 28th that I literally pulled all nighters. I KID YOU NOT. Also, the online JEDS court system for Morris County is so INSANELY DIFFICULT, CONFUSING AND TIME CONSUMING… I WOUND UP RUNNING OUT OF TIME, SUBMITTING IT LATE AND HAD TO LEAVE THINGS OUT. IT WAS EXTREMELY OVERWHELMING AND BEYOND STRESSFUL. I HAD TONS OF PANIC ATTACKS DURING THOSE TWO AND A HALF WEEKS. I HADN’T EVEN BRUSHED MY TEETH OR SHOWERED (OR SLEPT) THE LAST WEEK OF IT. ALL WHILE PRAYING THAT THE JUDGE ACCEPTS MY RESPONSE BECAUSE I KNOW HOW THIS CAN GO AND IF YOU DO IT WRONG OR INCORRECTLY IN ANY WAY, YOU LOSE. I’VE LIVED IT. This was also RIGHT AFTER I HAD JUST FILED- TWICE- FOR AN EMERGENCY HEARING/ ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE, ONLY TO BE DENIED BOTH TIMES BECAUSE OF MISTAKES THAT I MADE ONLINE. THAT WAS ALSO ABOUT TWO WEEKS OF THE SAME!!!!
*I ALSO JUST REALIZED THAT, NOT ONLY DID THIS JUDGE ISSUE A NEW ORDER THIS PAST JULY, BASED ON MY SON’S (INCORRECT) FILING, WITHOUT A HEARING AND GIVING ME NO OPPORTUNITY TO TELL MY STORY OR PROVIDE EVIDENCE… BUT I JUST REALIZED- LAST NIGHT- THAT I STILL HADN’T BEEN SERVED AT THAT TIME!!! I DIDN’T EVEN KNOW WHAT MY SON’S MOTION- AGAINST ME- SAID!!!!
THIS SYSTEM IS SO BROKEN.
THIS ALSO CAME AFTER THE ORANGE COUNTY, NY HEARING ON AUGUST 14TH. ONCE AGAIN, IT TOOK ME DAYS TO WRITE A LENGTHY STATEMENT WITH COUNTLESS NIGHTMARE STORIES OF THE FIFTEEN YEARS OF NONENFORCEMENT…. FIND ALL MY EVIDENCE… ALL THE TEXTS, EMAILS, PICTURES, COURT ORDERS, ETC, ETC…. ONLY TO ONCE AGAIN HAVE MY EX-HUSBAND NOT APPEAR. STILL NO ARREST.
WELL, THANK THE GOOD LORD, I DID RECEIVE SOME GOOD NEWS ON THE TUESDAY AFTER LABOR DAY, THAT THIS NJ JUDGE ALLOWED MY LATE RESPONSE. (I WAS ONE DAY LATE SERVING MY SON & EX-HUSBAND AND TWO DAYS LATE SUBMITTING IT TO THE COURT). HE JUST MOVED THE COURT DATE OUT TWO WEEKS (WHICH DOES SUCK) AND GAVE MY SON MORE TIME TO RESPOND TO MY OPPOSITION, IF HE CHOOSES TO DO SO. (No other responses are allowed after that).
Well, evidently, my son took issue with that. He filed his response. I received notification from the online JEDS court system that he filed this past Friday. BUT, HE DID IT INCORRECTLY AND DID NOT HAVE ME SERVED. SO, I STILL HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT SAYS. MY GOD, IF HE IS FIGHTING TO GET THE 5.5K THAT I AM ASKING FOR AND AM RIGHTFULLY OWED… THEN I REALLY HAVE NO WORDS. I WILL NEVER GET OUT OF THIS NIGHTMARE. THERE IS NO WAY OUT. WITHOUT HAVING A FEW THOUSAND TO FIVE THOUSAND DOLLARS, IN NJ, TO GET BACK ON YOUR FEET (YES, ALONG WITH A JOB). I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW MY PRECIOUS BOY HAS MADE ME ENEMY #1.
IF YOU CAN’T SEE THAT WHAT MY FAMILY IS DOING HERE, AND HAS DONE (AND NOT DONE) TO ME, THIS NIGHTMARE OF A YEAR… IF YOU CAN’T UNDERSTAND THAT THEY’VE PROVED MY POINT AS TO WHY I CHOSE TO WALK AWAY 2 YEARS AGO… WELL…
I JUST WISH THAT THEY COULD SHOW ME THE SAME GRACE AND FORGIVENESS THAT I ACTUALLY DID SHOW THEM FOR DECADES, BEFORE I WALKED AWAY.
I HONESTLY AM SORRY THAT I HURT THEM BY EXPOSING THINGS. I AM. AND I MISS THEM. I DO. BUT, I FEEL LIKE I CAN’T EVEN GET RID OF THE GIVESENDGO UNTIL I RECEIVE THIS MONEY- THAT I AM RIGHTFULLY OWED!!! I’M PETRIEFIED TO DELETE THE GIVESENDGO UNTIL I HAVE SOME HOPE!!! UNTIL I SEE THAT I CAN GET ON MY FEET- UNTIL I SEE IT IN THE HORIZON!!! I FEEL COMPLETELY HOPELESS!!!!
I STILL NEED HELP!!!! ATLEAST UNTIL THIS COURT DATE, WHICH IS ON SEPTEMBER 26TH. ITS IN A WEEK AND A HALF.
There was also another issue that arose recently regarding my son and the child support. Months ago, I received a letter from NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES about ‘Continuation of Child Support’. Basically, the child support will end on my son’s 19th birthday (which is in a week and a half), unless I show proof of him continuing his education. My son started trade school this summer. I had to complete the form and submit it by August 6th. I kept putting it off because of everything going on with my son and these court matters. When I received it, I noted that it was only two pages, so it was a quick form to fill out. BUT, I didn’t read it fully. (My fault). So, on August 6th, I pulled it up to fill out and sign. I had a panic attack, because it asks for a letter from the school, stating that he is currently enrolled or an active student and it must be in a letter format, with the school letterhead. Because my son went NO CONTACT with me, I played no part in his enrollment or the process altogether (this was heartbreaking and my son knows how upset I was). So, I only knew the school’s name and where its located. Keep in mind, I WANT TO HAVE THE CHILD SUPPORT CONTINUED BECAUSE:
1. IT IS IN MY SON’S BEST INTEREST
2. MY SON IS ENTITLED TO IT AS PER THE LAW AND MY DIVORCE AGREEMENT
I called his school in a panic and it took me forever to find the right person to speak to. This person then informed me that because I am not listed as a contact, and because of the FERPA laws (which was new to me), he couldn’t provide the letter on the school letterhead. He said that my son would have to request it himself. I told him a bit of what was going on. He understood and sympathized, but still couldn’t do it. BUT, after I asked, he was kind enough to just send me an email- which at the bottom, has the school logos and shows that the email literally came from the school. I figured well, child support knows what’s going on with my situation, and they must take this as verification, right? It stated everything that they asked for. NOPE. IT WASN’T GOOD ENOUGH. IT CAN’T BE IN AN EMAIL FORMAT. IT HAS TO BE IN A LETTER FORMAT WITH THE SCHOOL LETTERHEAD ON TOP. OMG. I emailed this man back countless times, left him voicemails and tried other people/ departments. I WAS TOLD THAT HE IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN PROVIDE THIS. I PUT UP A FIGHT WITH NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES, TO NO AVAIL. (WHAT ELSE IS NEW. THEY SUCK). But, that day- August 6th, I texted my sister & explained the situation & pleaded with her to please reach out to my son and have him call me or contact the school and have them provide the letter. I didn't hear back from her for a while, so for the first time in years, (because my mother & father have me blocked), I sent a text to my brother & his wife, whom my son moved in with in late June. NO RESPONSE. I ONLY STATED WHAT WAS HAPPENING & THAT IT WAS URGENT. Then, I SENT A TEXT TO TWO OF MY MOTHER’S SISTER’S- WHO I USED TO BE CLOSE WITH, AND TWO OF MY COUSIN’S (THEIR DAUGHTERS). I SIMPLY STATED THE SAME. NO RESPONSE. MY SISTER FINALLY GOT BACK TO ME HOURS LATER AND “I’M SORRY I DON’T HAVE ANY INFORMATION FOR YOU.” AND “I’M NOT GETTING IN THE MIDDLE OF THIS”. DUUUUUUUDE!!!!!!!!! IT IS UNBELIEVABLE!!!! WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN A QUICK AND EASY THING TOOK HOURS AND HOURS OF MY TIME AND STILL NO RESOLUTION. THE ONLY GOOD THING IS THAT NJ CHILD SUPPORT IS BASICALLY PUTTING THIS ON HOLD UNTIL OUR COURT DATE. SO HOPEULLY, MY SON WILL GET THIS LETTER FROM HIS SCHOOL AND SEND IT TO CHILD SUPPORT!!!! IT ONLY HAS TO STATE MY SON’S FULL NAME AND STATE THAT HE IS AN ACTIVE STUDENT THAT IS CURRENTLY ENROLLED IN THEIR SCHOOL.
WHAT DOES MY FAMILY THINK?? DO THEY THINK THAT I AM GOING TO SOMEHOW BENEFIT FROM THIS??? I AM NOT!!! THIS ISN’T ABOUT ME. ANY FUTURE CHILD SUPPORT IS OBVIOUSLY NOT GOING TO ME!!! IT’S UNREAL!!!! DOES ANYONE OTHER THAN ME, CARE ABOUT THIS? MY GOD, LET ME BE A PARENT!!!! FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!!!
And lastly, there’s still another court matter going on. As I stated in one of the updates, in late May 2024, me and my son realized that my ex was working in our town, and had been for quite a few months, while not paying any child support during that time. Payments had completely stopped in March 2024. For many months leading up to that, we were getting a much lower amount than the court ordered amount every week. It was coming directly out of his unemployment check. His unemployment ran out in late February/ early March and that's when the payments stopped altogether. So, when we realized in late May that he was working in our town, I found the establishment's business Facebook page. I scrolled and scrolled to see if I could find a picture that had my ex in it. Sure enough, I found a picture of him working at the establishment, dated March 5th. I took a screenshot and made sure to show the business's name and the date and timestamp of the post. I sent it to my caseworker right away and told her the whole story of what led up to that. She agreed that it was definitely evidence, but she had to follow protocol, which meant that she had to call the business, speak to the owner and ask directly if he was working there. She called that day. She called me back soon afterwards and told me that she spoke to the owner and that the owner told her that she does not know anyone by that name and that no, he does not work there. I knew this was a lie. I told my caseworker that and asked what she will do next. Will someone go down there and just go in and catch him working? Can someone go there and see his car out back and wait for him to come out? You know, investigate?? She informed me that there's nothing more that they can do. WHAT?????!!!!!! So..... I called there & asked for him. The woman who answered the phone said, Who is this? I said, His girlfriend. She said, Hold on. She then came back about a minute later & said, No, he doesn't work here & I don't know him. Well, then why did you ask who I was & put me on hold? They have like, 3 people on staff. So, me & my son went down there (it was right down the road from our home!). My ex’s corvette was parked out back. They locked both doors & wouldn't let us in. So, we sat in our car and waited for over an hour, to try to get him on video leaving the business and getting into the corvette. He never left. We finally gave up and went home. Later that night, my son went out with his friends and drove by there and noticed that his car was gone. (Obviously my ex knew that we were waiting outside for a long time). THE FACT THAT THE CP HAS TO TAKE THESE MEASURES & TAKE MATTERS INTO THIER OWN HANDS IS COMPLETELY LUDICROUS!!!!! THE SYSTEM NEEDS TO CHANGE!!!!! At that time, he owed over 10K and he also knew that we were facing eviction (I had major medical issues and we had lost our health insurance). That night, I posted about the situation on social media. I didn't threaten anyone. I didn't use lewd language. I didn't lie. I stated only facts and I didn't ask anyone to do any harm to anyone. What I DID DO, WAS IMPLORE MY SMALL COMMUNITY FOR HELP. I asked that if anyone goes to that business, and sees my ex working there, to please send me photos. Guess what?? I had friends and even complete strangers sending me pics of him working there and also his car parked out back all day, every day and pics of him out back washing his car on his break!!! I sent these to my caseworker. No dice. She told me that she still couldn't do anything. WHAT????!!!!!!! UNBELIEVABLE. Also, after I posted that, the owner of the establishment was calling me a liar and crazy on social media.... Well, exactly one week from the day that me and my son went down there, I had to take my son to drop off something for his school sport at a parent's house in town. They live right around the corner from the business, so we drove by. It was evening. As we were pulling down the street, we saw my ex locking up the back door for the night with a handful of work related things! I slowed down and my son started recording. I DID NOT pull into the parking lot. The street is a very quiet street at night, so I just came to a stop and rolled down my window. I said, "Hey! Locking up for the night, eh? You're always here! Volunteering, right??" He looked up briefly, but not long enough to notice that my son was recording. My ex says, "This is my job, dumbass!!" I said, "Yea, I know!! Meanwhile, your boss is calling me a liar and crazy!" My son recorded as he locked up the door and walked to his car and unloaded the items. We left right after that. WELL, THERE YA GO! A VIDEO WITH PROOF AND IT INCLUDES AN ADMISSION! I wound up posting the video online because at this point, now I need to clear MY NAME!!! (The owner actually went on and on, on social media and was bashing me, calling me names, brought up my child, and put me down for facing an eviction!!!!!) I also sent the video to my caseworker that night. (Keep in mind, I have ALL OF THE EMAIL CORRESPONDENCE with my caseworker). Well, she was PRETTY ANGRY THAT SHE WAS LIED TO. I would think that's breaking the law, right? She's a state worker and that is a court order. And also, she was paying him cash. That's also against the law. Anyway, THE VIDEO GOT ME A TRIAL. FINALLY!!! That was the July 2024 trial that I spoke about in my petition, which did NOT go as planned. SO, HERE IS WHERE IT GETS EVEN WORSE. THE DAY AFTER I TOOK THE VIDEO, MY EX HAD ME SERVED WITH A TRO (TEMPORARY RESTRAINING ORDER). He states in the TRO that the reason for the TRO is because I "SHOWED UP AT THE PLAINTIFF'S PLACE OF EMPLOYMENT" and that the "PLAINTIFF FEARS THAT HE WILL LOSE HIS LIVELIHOOD"..... Ummm... YOU REALLY CAN'T MAKE THIS STUFF UP. THIS IS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT I AM DEALING WITH. AND THESE ARE THE TYPES OF STORIES THAT I CAN TELL. THIS TRO WAS USED AS EVIDENCE AT THE CHILD SUPPORT TRIAL, ALONG WITH THE VIDEO AND THE FB PICTURE FROM THE BUSINESS PAGE, DATED MARCH 5TH.
***** THE TRO WAS OFCOURSE, DISMISSED.
BUT, HE MADE ME GO TO THREE COURT APPEARANCES. AT THE FIRST APPEARANCE, WHEN IT FINALLY WAS OUR TURN TO GO IN FRONT OF THE JUDGE, MY EX ASKED FOR AN ADJOURNEMENT SO THAT HE COULD "AMEND" THE TRO. THAT MEANS, TO ADD MORE INFORMATION TO IT. WHAT?!!!!!!!!! WHAT OTHER INFORMATION???? ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? THE JUDGE OBLIGED.
WHAT HE ADDED WAS COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS. AT OUR SECOND APPEARANCE, HE ASKED THE JUDGE FOR AN ADJOURNMENT BECAUSE HE WANTED TO HIRE A LAWYER. THE JUDGE OBLIGED. WHAT???!!!!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS???? AND WITH WHAT MONEY??? YOU CAN'T EVEN PAY CHILD SUPPORT!!!!! HE NEVER EVEN HIRED A LAWYER.
AT OUR THIRD APPEARANCE.... WE HAD A DIFFERENT JUDGE. THANK GOD!!!!! AND THIS GUY WASN'T PLAYIN. MY EX WAS LATE, DISHEVELED AND WAS ASKING NONSENSICAL QUESTIONS… JUST FOR THE RECORD, I KNEW THIS WAS A SLAMDUNK FOR ME. I JUST NEEDED TO BE HEARD!!!!!! SO, AFTER MY EX TELLS HIS SIDE... (THE JUDGE COULD SEE ME SILENTLY LOSING MY MIND)... I WENT THROUGH THE WHOLE STORY AND SHOWED HIM ALL OF THE 'RECEIPTS'. THE EMAILS WITH MY CASEWORKER, THE CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT HISTORY (OR LACK THEREOF), THE VIDEO, THE FB BUSINESS PAGE PIC OF HIM.... BUT THE REAL KICKER WAS THE TRO ITSELF!!!! HE ADMITS THAT HE WORKS THERE!!! CASE DISMISSED. HERE'S THE THING.
ME AND MY SON WERE GOING THROUGH AN EVICTION DURING THIS TIME. I HAD BEEN PACKING, AND I WAS DISTRAUGHT, BEYOND STRESSED.... I
REALLY NEEDED THE CHILD SUPPORT!!!!! I REALLY DIDN'T HAVE THE TIME FOR THIS ADDED STRESS AND NONSENSE!!!! THE THREE COURT DAYS.... THE TIME IT TOOK TO GATHER ALL OF MY EVIDENCE, PREPARE, THE GAS MONEY, THE PARKING METERS.... ARE YOU READY FOR MORE? I WAS THEN SERVED WITH COURT PAPERS FROM THE OWNER OF THE BUSINESS!!!! FOR 'ONLINE HARRASMENT'... NO, IT WAS NOT HARRASSMENT, AS I STATED ABOVE!!!!
ALTHOUGH, HER ONLINE RESPONSES TO ME WERE HARRASSMENT!!!!
THIS CASE IS STILL ONGOING!!!! THIS WOMAN WITHHELD ROUGHLY $3,000.00 IN CHILD SUPPORT DURING THAT TIME!!!! DURING THAT CRUCIAL TIME!!!! AFTER THE VIDEO THAT I GOT OF MY EX, MY CASEWORKER SENT **ANOTHER LETTER* TO THE OWNER FOR GARNISHMENT, AND STATED THAT SHE WAS AWARE OF THE PHOTO AND VIDEO.... AND WE WOUND UP GETTING ONE CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT OUT OF THE FIRST REAL PAYCHECK ON THE BOOKS...
AND THEN SHE FIRED HIM. IF THIS WOMAN DIDN'T BREAK THE LAW, I WOULDN’T HAVE HAD TO IMPLORE MY COMMUNITY FOR HELP. (AND IF NJ CHILD SUPPORT WOULD DO THEIR JOB). WE’VE HAD A FEW APPEARANCES IN COURT, BUT IT KEEPS GETTING ADJOURNED. I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT SHE HAS NOT DONE THE RIGHT THING AND DROPPED THE 'CHARGES'. OH, AND P.S. SHE WAS NAMED IN THE COURT ORDER FROM OUR CHILD SUPPORT TRIAL. IT STATES, "THE COURT HEREBY COMPELS [BUSINESS NAME] IN [TOWN, STATE] TO PROVIDE INCOME/PAY HISTORY AND DATE OF TERMINATION OF THE NCP [HIS NAME] TO MORRIS PROBATION WITHIN 20 DAYS. MORRIS PROBATION SHALL PROVIDE THIS INFORMATION TO THE COURT." THAT WAS ON 7/25/2024. ONE YEAR AGO. AND..... NO ONE SEEMS TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED WITH THAT AND EVIDENTLY, I'M NOT ALLOWED TO ASK. OUR NEXT COURT APPEARANCE IS TOMORROW (MONDAY). I AM NOT GOING. I DON’T HAVE THE MONEY FOR THE SIX HOUR ROUND TRIP. BUT, I ALSO DON’T HAVE THE EMOTIONAL OR MENTAL CAPABILITY RIGHT NOW, TO NOT ONLY DRIVE SIX HOURS ROUND TRIP, BUT ALSO TO GO THROUGH THIS AGAIN. THIS IS ALL TOO MUCH. I CAN’T TAKE ANYMORE. I HAVE PANIC ATTACKS ALL DAY, EVERYDAY. I SHAKE ALL DAY. I GET MIGRAINES EVERYDAY. I HAVE FACIAL TICKS NOW ALL DAY. I AM IN COMPLETE DESPAIR OVER MY SON. I HATE EVERY SECOND OF MY DAY. EVERY SINGLE SECOND. I DON’T KNOW HOW EVIL CAN JUST KEEP WINNING. I’M SURE THAT I’LL GET IN TROUBLE FOR NOT APPEARING TOMORROW. BECAUSE THAT IS MY LIFE. THIS CASE NEVER, EVER SHOULD HAVE BEEN BROUGHT. THIS WOMAN HAS NOT BEEN PENALIZED OR ARRESTED FOR WHAT SHE DID. SHE BROKE THE LAW BY PAYING HER EMPLOYEES CASH, TO AVOID PAYING TAXES. SHE THEN LIED TO A STATE WORKER, MY CHILD SUPPORT CASEWORKER, AND SAID THAT MY EX DOESN’T WORK THERE, WHEN HE HAD BEEN WORKING THERE FOR MONTHS. SHE CONTRIBUTED TO OUR HOMELESSNESS AND SUBSEQUENTLY OUR SEPARATION. THE $3,000.00 THAT WE LOST IN CHILD SUPPORT FOR THOSE MONTHS- BEFORE OUR EVICTION- WOULD HAVE PREVENTED OUR EVICTION. THE EMOTIONAL DISTRESS THAT SHE HAS PUT ME THROUGH… THE DEFAMATION OF ***MY CHARACTER*** ONLINE….
MY EX-HUSBAND HAS NEVER, EVER BEEN ARRESTED FOR THE MANY NO-SHOWS FOR COURT APPEARANCES. HE’S NEVER, EVER BEEN ARRESTED FOR NONPAYMENT OF SUPPORT, EVEN WITH A COURT ORDER FOR A BENCH WARRANT TO BE ISSUED IF HE MISSES ONE PAYMENT. THE SYSTEM IS SO BROKEN AND I AM NOT DOING OK. AT ALL.
I feel like I am never getting my boy back. That’s all I want. It’s all I’ve wanted since the day that I had to let him live with another family.
I need help. Atleast until my next court date regarding the child support, on September 26th. Please. If anyone can help. My Venmo is @Tanya-Zakk. I’m going to have a nervous breakdown.