I am so sorry that happened to you all and that you now feel worried about it happening to you too.

Sadly, that's a real legitimate fear to have especially because of this law amendment and is one of the reasons why I am fighting this, because many fear the same as you. Many are even walking away from loved ones because of that fear, some have told me they won't get into a new relationship either because of this new law as the risk is too great.

This general mindset of many is decreasing marriage rates and even how many babies are being born because men are frightened if they love someone and they are treating their loved one right, it still will get them in trouble. 

I'm sorry you are going through that but thank you for your comment because that's exactly what they need to see. 

That this isn't new and it effects more than just the man accused. ( I am often told what happened to mine doesn't effect me but losing him like this and the consequences I live with - homelessness being one of them - is horrible and even the sheer agony all around from this matter has greatly effected every part of my life. Missing him alone is brutal. These things definitely effect loved ones too) It effects loved ones AND the children involved in the situation too and can last for generations just like real DV dose. 

Simply accusing innocent men is wrong and that's that. 

Harming you guys will not stop the bad ones out there. 

I wish you the best with everything and I hope it helps to know you are not alone in that fear (I even have it about mine being re-accused the moment he's allowed back) being innocent isn't enough to prevent such things anymore (and often wasn't long ago too, something I'm learning about more every day) in short this entire THING is disgusting and actually makes it easier for the bad guys to get away because everyone is so caught up in fake charges and sorting that out that resources are not where they need to be. 

I come from decades of real DV from my birth family that were never stopped and one thing I know for sure is punishing men that haven't committed DV is no way to "protect victims of real DV" (infact having the only man to not abuse me be taken for abuse while those whom have hurt me get away Scott free, is a whole new level of hell that I am learning to cope with, words don't articulate how much that hurts us) as is the excuse they are using for this new law that's made it only more common for innocent men to be wrongfully charged. 

I hope we can get as many signatures as we can and we can improve the lives of good men. Thank you for your contribution that goal. 

Hopefully together we can all improve things for good men.

You are all important to this world. You deserve prase not arrest (or threat of arrest) for things you didn't do. 

Good luck. 

*Jon Rivero commented 45 minutes ago

“I watched this destroy my dad and it changed the way I saw the world forever. I am still feeling the effects now I have child and live in constant anxiety that it will happen to me.”