*Brian
I'm am so sorry. My household is too and lets just say that society and the justice system are no kinder to loved ones in these matters than they are to you men.
I understand a lot of what you'd be facing sometimes they act like I am guilty of DV purely because I refuse to give up on the one I love, whom isn't guilty either, they just dump the same crushing labels on me too.
Other times I'm called nasty things and it's assumed I'm not right in the head or just in denial of who he is.
I come from an EXTENSIVE history of real DV so even those accusing me of not being able to recognise or admit where DV is, is VERY insulting and aggravating. It also demines those who do go through the stage of not yet seeing it in real DV cases.
From lawyers to laws and society and cops they all have so much of this messed up and most havn't a clue what either side of this is like (be it an innocent man accused or victims in cases of real DV) they have no clue what they are talking about so how do they get to decide the law and our lives?
Good luck.
*Donna
Yeah, we are too. Sometimes it's not a woman on the relationship that accuses, it can be mother in laws, cops, literally anyone male or female. Ours is a combination of overstepping jerks of both male and female and a serious ignorance and disregard for mental health issues.
Harm and Abuse are not the same. No matter how the morden world twists them. Caregivers all over now are forced to do more alone and in secret for fear they or they that they care for will be wrongfully charged.
Even in cases of no health issues you are correct. Any woman can say anything about any man, ex or not and that man is (insert swear word) and that's just plain wrong.
Thank you for your support in getting this heard and seen and hopefully improved so our good men are not being forced to suffer just because there are bad ones out there.
Good luck with your case I hope you can sort yours out real soon.
If you are suffering the consequences or assumptions of society for standing by yours know that you are not alone and they are not right about you. Standing up for an innocent man is what we women need to do more of. They deserve protection too this has been going on long enough.
Where will we be if we let all our innocent good men disappear?