For over 15 years, my work as a licensed marriage and family therapist has shown me the devastating effects of system-induced trauma on children. All too often, our court systems make rulings that can significantly impact a child's future without the requisite understanding or resources to appreciate the true effects of these decisions. In cases of parenting disputes, the court's lack of a trauma-informed approach frequently leads to irreversible harm, altering the course of a child's development and well-being.

During my career, I have witnessed the dangerous outcomes when courts, untrained in the nuances of family dynamics and childhood trauma, make decisions regarding parenting time. Without the insight of mental health professionals, decisions are made in a vacuum, overlooking the profound psychological impact these disputes have on children. It is imperative that we integrate a trauma-informed approach and involve mental health experts in these proceedings to ensure the well-being and future success of our children.

Data from the National Child Traumatic Stress Network reveals that children subjected to high-conflict parenting environments develop trauma-related symptoms at alarming rates. These symptoms can lead to long-term psychological issues, including anxiety, depression, and behavioral disorders. Courts must acknowledge this reality and adapt their practices to safeguard our youth.

We propose that family court judges be required to undergo trauma-informed training and consider assessments from licensed mental health professionals before making any decisions that alter parenting arrangements. This change will not only improve the outcomes for children involved in these disputes but will also create a more equitable and informed judicial process.

By employing trauma-informed practices, we allow for decisions backed by scientific evidence and expert analysis. Such a shift is not only necessary but also morally imperative to protect the next generation. Every child deserves the chance for a stable and secure future, unmarred by preventable trauma stemming from legal ignorance.

Join us in our fight to protect our children and ensure our legal system reflects a compassionate and informed approach to parenting disputes. Sign this petition to demand trauma-informed practices in family courts and a better future for all our children.