Help Us Bring Our Son Back to His School – Reverse the Off-Site Direction

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The Issue

We are asking for your support in overturning a decision that will see our son sent to a school he does not know in an area he does not know over an hour away until January, causing significant disruption to his education at one of the most important stages of his school life.

This situation began when our younger son, who has additional needs, was subjected to a horrific physical assault by another pupil. He was put in a headlock, thrown to the ground, kicked and stamped on.

We believe it is important for people to understand that the pupil responsible is known within the school for bullying and had also tried to bully our younger son.

Having hearing about his vulnerable younger brother being subjected to such violence, our eldest son reacted. During the incident, while being restrained, he unknowingly pushed the headteacher.

Our eldest son is not a child with a history of behavioural problems. Quite the opposite. He is a valued member of his school community, serving as a sports leader and a member of the student council. He has never previously been suspended and has consistently demonstrated positive behaviour, commitment and involvement both in and outside of school life.

We are incredibly proud of the young person he is, and firmly believe that one incident, particularly one arising from such distressing circumstances, should not overshadow everything positive he has contributed to his school.

We understand that schools have a responsibility to maintain discipline and protect staff and pupils. We are not suggesting that the incident should be ignored or that every action taken was right. However, context matters. There is a significant difference between deliberately setting out to cause harm and a young person reacting emotionally after learning his younger brother had been violently attacked.

Our son apologised immediately after to the headteacher and also wrote a letter apologising and taking accountability. He has already received a five-day suspension and an internal exclusion. Despite these consequences, he now faces further separation from his school, being sent over an hour away to a completely different school until January.

We believe this additional punishment is disproportionate and could have a lasting impact on his education, emotional wellbeing and future opportunities.

His GCSE years are incredibly important. He deserves the opportunity to continue learning in a familiar environment, alongside the teachers and classmates he knows, rather than having his education disrupted further at such a critical stage.

We are not asking for special treatment. We are asking for fairness, compassion and an understanding of the full circumstances surrounding this incident. We ask the school to consider the bullying history, the assault on our younger son, our eldest son's previously unblemished behaviour record and his positive contribution as a sports leader and student council member in the only Secondary School he has ever known.

Children make mistakes, but they also deserve the opportunity to learn from them. One incident should not define a young person's character or determine their future.

Please stand with our family and help us ask the school to reconsider this decision. Let our son return to his school, continue his GCSE education and have the opportunity to demonstrate that this incident does not define who he is.

We are simply asking for fairness, understanding and a second chance.

Please sign and share this petition. Together, we can help give our son the opportunity to move forward and protect the future he has worked so hard for.

The Decision Makers

Local Educational Authority
School Board of the Secondary School

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