I was sexually assaulted at the age of 11, and years later, I endured sexual violence twice at the hands of my ex-partner. I was young and sadly did not know better. My understanding of these acts was skewed and blurred by what I witnessed in books and on television, where sexual assaults were often romanticized and painted in hues of love and passion.

As a parent of three daughters, it deeply concerns me that impressionable children and teens are exposed to such detrimental misrepresentations in today's age, where media is increasingly pervasive and accessible. This not only affects their comprehension of consent but also normalizes a culture of sexual violence, fostering a dangerous captivity in harmful relationships. 

A study by the Journal of Communication reveals that approximately 22% of top-grossing romantic films included scenes of sexual coercion, asserting an explicit influence on the general perception of relationships. Such a portrayal in media invites long-term detrimental psychological impacts, especially on younger viewers who identify, to a great extent, with such characters.

Our appeal is for the media industry, film boards, and publishers to act responsibly and take measures to prevent any form of sexual assault from being depicted positively (though I would like to point out that things such as consensual non-con does not count as there is still consent involved). Doing so would ensure that today's youth is not misinformed and misled into accepting or enduring such violence as a norm or an expression of love and affection. 

It is time we say no to the romanticization of sexual assault. This change is pivotal to foster a compassionate, informed, and safe environment for everyone. Dedicate your voice to this cause. #MeToo