Here is what really Happened 

We both have been Mental health Nursing Students at a University,

She appeared a decent girl when I met her here on Virtual Placement VP online lectures, we chatted a lot on WhatsApp and through e-mails too and found out about each other well and our vulnerabilities.

The placement lasted for 2 weeks from 1st week of January, we saw each other on-line lectures, from the 3rd week she had to go to the physical placement to the hospital and I continued to support her emotionally and encouraged her whenever she was down as per request. For, next 2 weeks we worked apart but in touch with limited communications.

For the 1st 2-3 weeks, we exchanged messages about our life and achievement, challenges, and so on, it was somewhat intense but nothing inappropriate, both e-mails and WhatsApp messaging alone almost 60 A4 sheets of pages of messages of uncovering our individualities, mostly she confided a lot of her personal intimate life from her birth to date. I was mainly listening actively without being judgemental. It appeared to me from what she said that she had a very difficult and tough childhood, as her father was life time drug addict and recently tried to commit suicide but survived. Her relationship with her mum is not healthy, she left home at the age of 15 years old to live an independent life. 

At some point something intrigued me was at the beginning she sent a picture of a 5-year-old girl's photo with her, said everybody is thinking she is my daughter, I cannot argue with her as she has my attitude! but I did not take too much of notice,

just said she is cute that is all, then she asked if I have a young once, I just diverted the discussion as I did not want to upset her for no reason. She appeared to be troubled soul. 

Everything was reasonably OK up until the 1st 5 weeks, but after the 5th weeks she became somewhat distant, I did ask her if she was ok?, she said that she was exhausted, sorry for not returning text, after few days she mentioned she had some family issues and she kept it to herself, asked if she would like talk about it, as I sensed that something was not wright with here, she said no! so I gave her my support asked if she needed any help, she said that she would be OK, so I gave some space, told her if you need me where I am. 

A few days later in our texting discussion, she said for the first time she was badly suffering from ADHD lately, so I offered her an opportunity to see a specialist Psychiatrist privately on my own expenses but did not get any response back, I was heartbroken and felt sad for her. Asked, if she was on any medication, she replied no, said I don't want to be feeling weird. I said that is OK and told her that I liked her for who she was, it does not matter about ADHD, probably she felt bad not telling me at the beginning of our friendship.

Then gradually she started to keep more and more distance from me not being in touch but I sent all the lecture notes as per her request and materials to continued to support her, but she never acknowledged me, though I felt a bit disappointed but did not say anything to hurt her feeling. Two months have gone by, she started to slow-faded and not have much emotional feeling and connections.

It felt like that her behavior lately was emotionally draining me and I was worried, so I asked her if she was OK? said Fine! so I said to her I do not recognize you anymore, you seem not the same person that I met first! she said nothing, you did not upset me! very abrupt! It is just my ADHD, I have to deal with me. but from time to time I send encouraging messages but no response at all. Even I called, she hung up the phone but I was worried for her mental health status and I was not able to reach out to help.

But I felt at this stage, she emotionally drained me throughout the process of knowing me, so I sent an email towards February concerning her poor communications and my feelings towards her, told her that I admire her but can not continue like this and would like to bring our brief encounter to closure to move on. 

Within a week of that email sent, she turned into a really vindictive and nasty person towards me and did the following within weeks apart, I am totally devastated, she reported me at work on with an accusation, Breach of confidentiality at work, meeting employment terminated on gross misconduct. I can not comprehend what she did and why she did that when you trusted her so much and shared information with trust and confidence! She deliberately took away something that I worked very hard for it for years. After all, her phone number, a picture of a 5-year child, and her email address was given to me voluntarily when we met her on the online lecture by her, to this extent I didn't even ask for any of these.

She became a close friend for 2-3 months and during this process of getting to know me, she then turned to emotionally abuse me online to cause psychological distress, This all happened, after a recent disagreement, I informed her that I would like to bring closure to our friendship. To that effect, I never met her face to face and or had any inappropriate relationship, only contact through online university lecture, WhatsApp application. She premeditated her callous acts of violence against me to damage my reputation and my nursing career. Knowing my disability and vulnerability

Furthermore, she had also made allegations against me to the university bullying and harassment which being investigated by the University last week appears to be with a real vengeance to tarnish my Nursing career and my nursing PIN number. I had totally denied any wrongdoing. As a result of her actions, I am currently being suspended and all its account being revoked and it is being investigated. I am finding the whole thing overwhelming when someone I trusted and who knows my vulnerabilities can go to that extent and intend to damage mycareer.

At the same time, now I feel the university is currently using heavy-handed tactics to isolate me from other students and unreasonably, prevented me from continuing with my course. This is causing me psychological distress and mental health deterioration.

I now truly believe that I was being deliberately targeted into a malicious narcissistic trap to be used as her supply, with clear intend to harm myself, Finally, she had reported me to the Police with further allegations, now been invited for interview in that regards

What really surprised me is that all the way through as every single incident happened, I reported this to Crime Stoppers in timely manner, It appears to be that police totally neglected the cry for help, but as soon as she made a complaint they are actively seeking to bring charges against me. 

Please see below for the full story of continuing institutional abuse.

Please, may I ask everyone who reads this article to sign my petition to get some justice and fairness. I am not seeking any monetary support but only seeking your kindness 

Here is my continuing story of abuse by the institution

Thank you all for taking time to read and support my cause. I am not seeking any financial assistance, only asking for your prayers and blessing to uphold the Truth.

I am a final year mental health nursing student with disability, recently I have lost my full time job that I loved for years through character assassination, it was a premediated and malicious targeted attack, same person went to University with few days later made serious allegations against me, I am being suspended just based on that person allegation and lost my job on the same day.

That was the most painful day in my life, never forget going home after being dismissed from my employment at around 21:00 pm. I have lost my reputation and my career too.

Investigation lead is a bully and a tyrant because he is surrounded by rest of the senior management who encourages him bully disabled student to cause psychological harm and distress.

Asked for counselling help while going through the constant abuse to get some basic support, it was denied. Believe the intension is to get the disabled student to consider self-harm, hence the institution does not have to answer anyone, hence much easer to cover-up there criminal activity.

If you raise any concerns to senior management, they will carry out a convenient fast tracked investigation which will conclude that the disabled student is the problem and will send for Psychiatric assessment and mount more pressure on the student to give-up. Then force the student to attend "Fitness to Practice", asked for relevant policies, reply was "it will be sent to you in due cause" perhaps just day before the meeting.

They will call for a meeting with no agenda or structure, no mention of note taking. Investigator is very abusive, threatening and no regards for disability Equality Act 2010 or Mental Health Act 2007, witness by academics with Nursing qualification and PhD. Investigatory process is very biased and unfair. Ask for minutes, all the factual statement discussed will be removed.

When you have a courage to challenge the investigating team using what they preach in the lectures such as honesty, ethics and moral value and duty of care owed, NMC code of conduct, the then Institutional harassment and intimidation intensifies to break-down or silent treatment. This is where you can sense the racial prejudice, specially the odd one out if you happen to be BAME against the privileged  Institution.

Among them the investigatory team has over 200 years of experience and all the recourses with indemnity insurances for legal expenses worth millions, But I am standing on my own with true dignity and ONLY believing in my FATHER because HE allows me to see through my enemies. At the end I will WIN to rewrite the HISTORY.

Please feel free to support me with words of encouragement and blessing to help me have courage to push it through this journey.

My sincere appreciation goes to "Sir Morgan Freeman", "change.org" & "LinkedIn" to enable me to share my story and experiences. I believe in Justice and Fairness and the shared WISDOM can help to protect each others from HARM and ABUSE.

For those of you who believe in justice and fairness, my heart goes out to all for your kindness & support. I shall now pray in the name of Jesus, AMEN.,

Warm regards,

Nathan