STOP ILLEGAL ADOPTIONS SOMEONE NEEDS TO BE THE VOICE OF THESE CHILDREN!!!

The Issue

IM BEGGING YOU TO READ THIS PLEASE HELP ME DO SOMETHING FOR MY SWEET BABY KASON!

This whole ordeal is horrible I can only imagine what he went through and the heartache I had to endure! And I have not missed one day without crying! When you find yourself broken in a thousand pieces you can't help but ask yourself "do you turn when you need help but there are no law's to help ?"  I never thought about the reasons laws are passed until I needed the law's help only to be told they couldn't help me because there are no laws to help in my situation �  we are taught that law's and police officers are here to serve and protect but what can you do when ther is no law to help you ?!  I feel that I was robbed of my rights ! It's like standing in a room full of people screaming out for help but no one could hear you  THIS IS NO DIFFERENT THAN HUMAN TRAFFICKING YOU DO NOT GIVE A CHILD AWAY WHEN ITS NOT YOUR CHILD! 

The judge was never told about me rasing him ! Banging manipulated the system they allowed to the judges of face never telling him that his grandmother has had him for the first two years of his life they just went into court and my daughter signed papers over giving guardianship away me and my youngest child grieved to this day she went to her grave grieving over her child please someone out there can help me I know they can

 

My beautiful grandsons kason's  story should be told I feel something should be done to stop anyone from feeling this pain i hope to stop someone  from going through it ! I've always believed that there is a difference between a mother and a mom I believe that a mother is who gives birth to a child and a mom is the one that raises the child I also believe that the more people to love the child the better it is for the child . I came on change.org to speak out on behalf of my grandson kason I think not that just his stories should be told but also someone has to be the voice of kason ! kason was just 4 months old when this mom came to me and asking me if I would take kason his mom was in a bad situation and in an abusive relationship with kasons dad and was unavailable to take care of kason like she wanted and DHR had just came into the picture so I immediately of course said yes absolutely! I cannot express you how bad this broke my daughter's heart she truly wanted to be the mother that she wanted to be she just was so lost and was afraid and so young that she was just not mentally stable at that time but she took a lot of courage to stand up and say hey I can't do this I'm not ready and I will always remember that of her because most teenage girls don't have the courage to do that! 

This is an innocent loveable child! I'm greving myself to the point I was hospitalized please just read this 

To know kason is to love kason he touches your heart right from the start and sadly at the time I got him I was in a dark place in my life when this beautiful child showed up and changed everything in my life ! and before I knew it there was so much love , light and laughter brought back into my life and the Bond was greater than I expected!!  kason became my world he made life a beautiful place for me Without even realizing it he did this for me daily ! As time went on we started to grow together in many ways it was truly a blessing to have had that in this life!  because of everything kason had went through while he was with his parents you had to be careful of any loud noise otherwise it would scare him which made me love him even more time  passed before I knew it it was over an year and in that years time we learned so much from each other watching him grow in so many ways made my heart whole again 

Kason and I had an unbelievable Bond one I can't explain he was four months old when he was brought to me I became the only mom he knew he became so much more than just a grandson he was like my own son i would do anything for him even moving out of the town I was in to better our living situation I had no idea what was about to happen on the morning of September 29th it was just like every other day I sat kason down to eat breakfast when I seen a car pull up i knew something was not right and didn't know who was at my house I opened the door to find out a call was made to child protective services and even though I knew kason was very well taken care of I did not have custody 

Because I was unsure of what was going on I thought it was best that my daughter destiny pick him up due to the fact she had custody .the next morning she showed up to pick him up and reassured me he would be fine and back home in a day or two I trusted her!  however that was not her intentions after time had passed and kason wasn't home I being to question her she again lead me to believe that kason was fine and with her and would be home as soon as the case was closed 

More time had passed and I became very uneasy and felt something was not right it was this day I realized my daughter was not being honest with me and she would tell me nothing I knew now kason was not in her care and started looking for answers I placed a call to the department of child services and threatened to report my grandson as a missing baby if they could not tell me where he was .it was then that I found out not only was I lied to but I didn't even know my own child I was informed that the case was closed after it was proven the call was false information and kason could have returned home just two weeks after he was picked up a good several months had passed but I never stop looking for answers my daughter finally informed me that she did not have kason that she placed him with a couple that had been trying to adopt a child for years 

Because the state of Alabama does not have grandparents rights I was told there was nothing I could do ! I was not going to except that for an answer I was completely destroyed and in disbelief that this was happening my grandson just 18 months old was picked up from my home and drove 2 miles down the road to a couple he did not know and dropped him off where he stayed for a few nights and then the couple that was wanting to adopt a child picked him up ! again kason did not know these people!

And again because alabama has no grandparents rights I was told there was nothing I could do again I was not taking that for an answer I started looking into it and found the couple that had my baby I explained that kason was very much loved and I wanted him home however I got no response from them my last hope was to turn to the court system I was told I could file for custody myself which I did just that it took until August 25th to get my court date I finally had hope my beautiful baby boy would be home soon 

The days seem to pass so slowly and the pain only grew I was greving myself and was in disbelief that this had happened and taking so long I couldn't understand why there was no law to help me I could not believe that it was okay to just give a child away to strangers over night like he was finally the day came before court I had so much hope and couldn't wait to hold him again however on August 24th just a day before court I received a call from my lawyer informing me that kason adoption had went through and there was nothing left that I could do my heart felt like it was going to stop my hopes were gone and my faith was broken 

Because the state of alabama does not have grandparents rights my beautiful grandbaby is gone not a day has passed that I ask myself what he must of been thinking I ask myself did he think I just left him or that he did something wrong I ask myself was he crying was he scared my only hope is that he didn't miss me like I missed him my hope was that he couldn't feel what I was feeling I wanted him to be a happy baby and never feel what I do I miss my kason so very much and every day is a struggle to get up and keep going my days are spent crying and greving for my grandson grandparents like me should have rights this was wrong in so many ways it should be against the law to give a family member away like that especially when there is a family member willing to take that child 

Kason is gone all I have are memories and my phone is full of pictures and videos of our time together but it's just not the same my life will never be the same I don't know I can ever forgive my daughter but I am trying to rebuild life the best I can without my sweet baby but the reality of it is kason isn't coming back and my pain is to much to bare at times to see his toys , to see his clothes, to see his pacifiers, brings me to my knees ! And tears fall off rain! ALABAMA NEEDS NEW LAWS TO STOP THINGS LIKE THIS FROM HAPPENING PLEASE SIGN THIS PETITION                                                                        NANA loves u

#HOPEFORKASON #GRANDPARENTRIGHTS

 

 

 

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Brandy NickensPetition StarterHelp me get my family back! this is part #1 of my heartbreaking story of my grandbay kason in hopes you would be willing to share this position he was just 2 years old! as a heartbroken nana that desperately needs your help! my whole life was shattered!

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The Issue

IM BEGGING YOU TO READ THIS PLEASE HELP ME DO SOMETHING FOR MY SWEET BABY KASON!

This whole ordeal is horrible I can only imagine what he went through and the heartache I had to endure! And I have not missed one day without crying! When you find yourself broken in a thousand pieces you can't help but ask yourself "do you turn when you need help but there are no law's to help ?"  I never thought about the reasons laws are passed until I needed the law's help only to be told they couldn't help me because there are no laws to help in my situation �  we are taught that law's and police officers are here to serve and protect but what can you do when ther is no law to help you ?!  I feel that I was robbed of my rights ! It's like standing in a room full of people screaming out for help but no one could hear you  THIS IS NO DIFFERENT THAN HUMAN TRAFFICKING YOU DO NOT GIVE A CHILD AWAY WHEN ITS NOT YOUR CHILD! 

The judge was never told about me rasing him ! Banging manipulated the system they allowed to the judges of face never telling him that his grandmother has had him for the first two years of his life they just went into court and my daughter signed papers over giving guardianship away me and my youngest child grieved to this day she went to her grave grieving over her child please someone out there can help me I know they can

 

My beautiful grandsons kason's  story should be told I feel something should be done to stop anyone from feeling this pain i hope to stop someone  from going through it ! I've always believed that there is a difference between a mother and a mom I believe that a mother is who gives birth to a child and a mom is the one that raises the child I also believe that the more people to love the child the better it is for the child . I came on change.org to speak out on behalf of my grandson kason I think not that just his stories should be told but also someone has to be the voice of kason ! kason was just 4 months old when this mom came to me and asking me if I would take kason his mom was in a bad situation and in an abusive relationship with kasons dad and was unavailable to take care of kason like she wanted and DHR had just came into the picture so I immediately of course said yes absolutely! I cannot express you how bad this broke my daughter's heart she truly wanted to be the mother that she wanted to be she just was so lost and was afraid and so young that she was just not mentally stable at that time but she took a lot of courage to stand up and say hey I can't do this I'm not ready and I will always remember that of her because most teenage girls don't have the courage to do that! 

This is an innocent loveable child! I'm greving myself to the point I was hospitalized please just read this 

To know kason is to love kason he touches your heart right from the start and sadly at the time I got him I was in a dark place in my life when this beautiful child showed up and changed everything in my life ! and before I knew it there was so much love , light and laughter brought back into my life and the Bond was greater than I expected!!  kason became my world he made life a beautiful place for me Without even realizing it he did this for me daily ! As time went on we started to grow together in many ways it was truly a blessing to have had that in this life!  because of everything kason had went through while he was with his parents you had to be careful of any loud noise otherwise it would scare him which made me love him even more time  passed before I knew it it was over an year and in that years time we learned so much from each other watching him grow in so many ways made my heart whole again 

Kason and I had an unbelievable Bond one I can't explain he was four months old when he was brought to me I became the only mom he knew he became so much more than just a grandson he was like my own son i would do anything for him even moving out of the town I was in to better our living situation I had no idea what was about to happen on the morning of September 29th it was just like every other day I sat kason down to eat breakfast when I seen a car pull up i knew something was not right and didn't know who was at my house I opened the door to find out a call was made to child protective services and even though I knew kason was very well taken care of I did not have custody 

Because I was unsure of what was going on I thought it was best that my daughter destiny pick him up due to the fact she had custody .the next morning she showed up to pick him up and reassured me he would be fine and back home in a day or two I trusted her!  however that was not her intentions after time had passed and kason wasn't home I being to question her she again lead me to believe that kason was fine and with her and would be home as soon as the case was closed 

More time had passed and I became very uneasy and felt something was not right it was this day I realized my daughter was not being honest with me and she would tell me nothing I knew now kason was not in her care and started looking for answers I placed a call to the department of child services and threatened to report my grandson as a missing baby if they could not tell me where he was .it was then that I found out not only was I lied to but I didn't even know my own child I was informed that the case was closed after it was proven the call was false information and kason could have returned home just two weeks after he was picked up a good several months had passed but I never stop looking for answers my daughter finally informed me that she did not have kason that she placed him with a couple that had been trying to adopt a child for years 

Because the state of Alabama does not have grandparents rights I was told there was nothing I could do ! I was not going to except that for an answer I was completely destroyed and in disbelief that this was happening my grandson just 18 months old was picked up from my home and drove 2 miles down the road to a couple he did not know and dropped him off where he stayed for a few nights and then the couple that was wanting to adopt a child picked him up ! again kason did not know these people!

And again because alabama has no grandparents rights I was told there was nothing I could do again I was not taking that for an answer I started looking into it and found the couple that had my baby I explained that kason was very much loved and I wanted him home however I got no response from them my last hope was to turn to the court system I was told I could file for custody myself which I did just that it took until August 25th to get my court date I finally had hope my beautiful baby boy would be home soon 

The days seem to pass so slowly and the pain only grew I was greving myself and was in disbelief that this had happened and taking so long I couldn't understand why there was no law to help me I could not believe that it was okay to just give a child away to strangers over night like he was finally the day came before court I had so much hope and couldn't wait to hold him again however on August 24th just a day before court I received a call from my lawyer informing me that kason adoption had went through and there was nothing left that I could do my heart felt like it was going to stop my hopes were gone and my faith was broken 

Because the state of alabama does not have grandparents rights my beautiful grandbaby is gone not a day has passed that I ask myself what he must of been thinking I ask myself did he think I just left him or that he did something wrong I ask myself was he crying was he scared my only hope is that he didn't miss me like I missed him my hope was that he couldn't feel what I was feeling I wanted him to be a happy baby and never feel what I do I miss my kason so very much and every day is a struggle to get up and keep going my days are spent crying and greving for my grandson grandparents like me should have rights this was wrong in so many ways it should be against the law to give a family member away like that especially when there is a family member willing to take that child 

Kason is gone all I have are memories and my phone is full of pictures and videos of our time together but it's just not the same my life will never be the same I don't know I can ever forgive my daughter but I am trying to rebuild life the best I can without my sweet baby but the reality of it is kason isn't coming back and my pain is to much to bare at times to see his toys , to see his clothes, to see his pacifiers, brings me to my knees ! And tears fall off rain! ALABAMA NEEDS NEW LAWS TO STOP THINGS LIKE THIS FROM HAPPENING PLEASE SIGN THIS PETITION                                                                        NANA loves u

#HOPEFORKASON #GRANDPARENTRIGHTS

 

 

 

avatar of the starter
Brandy NickensPetition StarterHelp me get my family back! this is part #1 of my heartbreaking story of my grandbay kason in hopes you would be willing to share this position he was just 2 years old! as a heartbroken nana that desperately needs your help! my whole life was shattered!

The Decision Makers

Kay Ivey
Alabama Governor
Mary Moore
Alabama House of Representatives - District 59

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