I am a girl. Someone who cares, and that makes all the difference. People will judge you, by your gender, sexuality, body, class, and more. But, why is it that when a women does something, that most men do, the women gets judged? That when a women wants to have sex with someone, or has sex with many people, it is the women who gets judged? Like, it takes two to have sex. And the man won't be judged, they'll say, "Boys will be boys" but it isn't fair to those who just want to have sex. And women are portrayed as weak, in all the movies, and men are always the heroes. Women have to see that it is up to us to change the world. Housewives, cleaners, mothers, and more. People always think that women are weak, but in real life, who is that person in the dark, nudging men to do this or that? Who is the person who is seen, and not heard? A woman. She sees everything, and she makes for an excellent spy because she sees everything. These days, people look at a girl, and see a great body, beautiful face, and amazing curves. Not a person with smarts, love, and a mind. 

History doesn't tell us about the tyranny against women. They tell us that women were treated perfectly fine, if they did as they were told. If they smiled when they should, and acted as though their only mission in life is to serve their husbands. A quote is from The Kingdom Of Back by Marie Lu is, "He tells you to play, so you play. He tells you to curtsey, so you curtsey. He tells you what you are meant to do and what you are meant not to do, so you do and do not do. He tells you not to be angry, so you smile, you turn your eyes down, you are quiet and do exactly as he says in the hopes that this is what he wants, and then one night you realize that you have given him so much of yourself that you are nothing but the curtsey and the smile and the quiet. That you are nothing." And I realized after reading this book, that women are put into positions of power only to be controlled by men. That women are still trapped, though they can wear, and work the way they want to, peer pressure doesn't help.

Stop asking yourself, are you beautiful? Because who decides what beauty is? You or me? I do. So say, "I am beautiful the way I am, and I don't need a man to prove my point" every day, and it will help. And if you see someone on the sidewalk or at school getting judged, well go give a helping hand. And even if you sacrifice yourself, the price is worth it. Help yourself and others. Give a this world, a race of women, smart, strong, and powerful. And we don't bow to anyone. So you don't either. I love you. No matter your body, your race, your life style, and culture. I love you for you. So keep being yourself, and let the others change for you. You can change the world by standing up to that bully in school, or telling your horrible boyfriend that you hate him and you are deciding to break up with him. Change the world, not yourself. And Read. Read to find friends in your books.

Email me at ishyadinesh@outlook.com if you want to contact me. I hope this touches your heart and inspires you. We can change the world, we just need to be patient and bide our time. And maybe society will realize that the rule we have are no longer needed. Read, and contact me. With stories of your own. I won't judge. I won't hate you. And if you want, you can give me permission to share your stories, with the world, so we can have a future to hope for. Thanks for reading this. I hope your view on the world has changed. I also look into the mirror and ask myself if I look good. And I think that this has helped me learn that I do. In my own way. I love you. My Email is below. I hope this has changed your life for the better. 

Love,

Isla

 ishyadinesh@outlook.com