It doesn’t matter if somebody else has the primary custody of that child that child should never be separated from an able mother. As birth moms, as soon as we even think of adoption, we become praised, pressured and coerced by adoption agencies and other Christian people for such a noble sacrifice but, as soon as we consider changing our mind, we become unfit parents for even considering adoption in the first place, and after the adoption happens, we are pushed away, and there’s no more use for us, and no legal recourse for doing so regardless of the commitments made that we could always see our children, And adoptive parents love it. They alone are reaping all the benefits while their own children are biologically starving and dying inside. Children that they didn’t have to suffer for and endure extreme physical, mental and emotional toll on their bodies as well as a genetic connection for life that cannot be replaced by any family, no matter how well off or connected they are. Families aren’t replaceable.