Many people may think that I abandon my children, or that by giving them up for adoption. I did that by default, or that I should have no right to my children because I placed them for adoption, but I don’t believe that that is beneficial to the children, who are suffering, a tremendous trauma, and Biologically crippled because our society and our laws do not protect that vital connection between mother and baby. If I am suffering, my children are also. They are an extension of my life trying to force them into another family that they weren’t created for and make them into something they’re not and trying  to deny them of their biological connection and and identity is as cruel as chaining them to a bed or the other horrific abusive things that people do to children