Agar visa ka lafda naheen hota to sainkadon log India say Lahore gaye hotay” (If the visa issue wasn't there, scores of people from India would have gone to Lahore) for Asma Jahangir's funeral, commented the feminist activist Kamla Bhasin in Delhi. Many in Pakistan would also have gone to India for Sridevi's funeral. But this 'visa ka lafRa' prevents people from sharing each other's grief and joyous occasions. We want a visa-free South Asia, like EU. Is that an impossible dream?