I am Arabella’s mama, and I should still have my daughter here with me. Instead, I am carrying the kind of grief that changes you forever, and I am left fighting for answers no parent should have to beg for. During Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, people talk about remembrance, and that matters deeply to me. But remembrance without accountability is not enough when a family is living with questions that never should have been left unanswered.

Too many parents are sent home with heartbreak and confusion at the exact moment they need honesty, compassion, and clarity. When a baby dies and a family believes something may have gone wrong, they should not have to chase down information or feel ignored by the very system that was supposed to care for them. Our babies deserve to be remembered, yes, but their stories also deserve to be taken seriously. Their lives mattered, and the truth matters too.

That is why I am calling on hospitals and hospital systems to require formal reviews of pregnancy and infant loss cases when families raise concerns, and to clearly communicate the findings to those families. Parents deserve a real process, timely answers, and a direct explanation of what happened, what is being investigated, and what will change to protect other babies. Accountability should not depend on how loud a grieving parent can fight while carrying unimaginable pain.

I am speaking for Arabella, for my family, and for every parent carrying the weight of an angel baby gone too soon. No parent should have to live with this heartbreak and silence at the same time. Please sign this petition and help demand answers, accountability, and justice for families like mine.