My journey with my goddaughter Mariah began when she was just 12 years old. Over these years, I’ve watched her grow and face numerous challenges with courage and grace. Mariah is now 20, and she lives with autism, ADHD, speech impairments, and several health and mental issues. These conditions do not define her, but they do mean she needs support and guidance.

Right now, what Mariah and others like her need most is understanding and support, not control. Guardianship should be about helping her navigate life’s complexities, preserving her autonomy while ensuring her well-being, not about dictating her every move or decision. It's important for those with guardianship responsibilities to step in as guides and supporters, not controllers.

However, people often misunderstand this and impose unnecessary control, causing more harm than good. The goal of guardianship should align with the true needs of those under it, offering advice, support, and love that empowers rather than restricts.

It is crucial for society to recognize that asking for help is perfectly okay. It reflects the need for compassion and customized care plans that respect the individuality and unique needs of those like Mariah. Misconceptions about mental health and disability often lead to unhelpful scenarios where control outweighs assistance.

We seek to change this narrative. Policies and practices around guardianship should emphasize the dignity and personal autonomy of individuals. They should ensure that people like Mariah get the guidance they deserve to live fulfilling lives, where decision-making is shared and respected.

Join us in advocating for a guardianship system that prioritizes helping, guiding, and protecting – a system rooted in empathy and understanding. Sign this petition to call on policymakers to create frameworks that enable guardians to offer real support, not exert undue control. Stand with us to ensure guardianship means guidance and growth for those who need it most.