🧡 Neil’s Letter: “I Wish I Was With You.”
When a Victim Child Is Silenced — We Speak Louder
Neil wrote this handwritten Christmas card to his mother in 2023:
“I wish I was with you.”
“To wish you a very very very very very very very... Super Christmas Day.”
“Have every Christmas very very super good. From Neil.”
He poured all his feelings into this letter.
But he was refused to send it.
Social worker Sadie Skidmore and the father blocked it — just like they’ve blocked every phone call, letter, and photo since 2023.
📍 This is not parenting. This is a system that censors love and silences a child’s voice.
At just 8 years old, Neil was forced to spend Christmas — and every day — without his mother, his language, or his culture.
And when he finally found a way to send a message to his mum through the father’s device, he wrote:
“Mama, are you there?”
She replied with love and prayer.
Moments later, the father blocked all contact again.
📍 The court called this “a simple case.”“No merit at all".
But we know what it is: emotional cruelty and child apartheid.
📢 What has the system refused to see?
• The 2019 judgment confirming the father’s abuse
• That Neil was safe and thriving with his mother
• 20+ professionals and community witnesses who stood with him
• Medical records showing trauma, insomnia, suicidal thoughts
• His life under a language ban, a culture ban, and a love ban
📢 What do we do now?
✅ We will speak louder.
✅ We will continue — with truth and action.
✅ We will report this case to the police for criminal abuse and coercive control.
✅ We will call on Parliament to open a public investigation.
✅ We will submit our case to the European Court of Human Rights.
✅ We will continue sharing Neil’s story — on this petition, in the media, and worldwide.
📍 If this can happen to Neil, it can happen to any child.
Help us stop it now.
👉 https://www.change.org/mama_take_me_home
📌 中文部分
📢 當一個受害兒童被法院噤聲——我們更要大聲說出真相
🧡 尼爾的信：「我希望我跟你在一起。」
2023 年聖誕節前，尼爾親手寫下這張卡片給媽媽：
「我希望我跟你在一起。」
「祝你有一個非常非常非常非常非常非常非常……超級聖誕節。」
「願你每個聖誕節都非常非常棒。來自尼爾。」
他把全部的心意和思念寫進這封信，但社工 Sadie Skidmore 和父親一起阻止它寄出。
就像他們從 2023 年開始，阻止尼爾與母親所有的接觸、照片、電話、擁抱、語言與文化。沒有一天中斷。
📍這不是育兒，這是系統性地封鎖孩子的愛、聲音與人權。
那年聖誕節，8 歲的尼爾無法與媽媽說話，也無法說中文或接觸自己的家庭與文化。
幾個月後，他偷偷在父親的裝置中找到媽媽，打字問：
「媽媽，你在嗎？」
媽媽立刻回覆並為他禱告。
幾分鐘後，父親再次封鎖了所有聯繫。
法院卻說：「這是簡單的案件」「一點價值都沒有。」
但我們知道那是什麼：
這是情感虐待。這是對兒童的種族隔離（Apartheid）。
📢 法院拒絕看到什麼？
• 2019 年的法院判決已確認父親施暴
• 尼爾曾在母親身邊健康、平靜、快樂地生活
• 超過 20 位專業人士與社區支持者站出來為尼爾作證
• 醫療記錄顯示他出現創傷、失眠、想死
• 他正生活在語言禁令、文化禁令與情感禁令之下
📢 我們會怎麼做？
✅ 我們會繼續說出真相
✅ 我們不會被壓制
✅ 我們將採取行動
🔶 向警方報案，控告犯罪虐待與操控行為
🔶 向國會要求公開調查與問責
🔶 向歐洲人權法院遞交申訴
🔶 在請願平台、媒體與世界各地，持續發聲
📍如果這樣的事能發生在尼爾身上，就可能發生在任何孩子身上。
請幫助我們守護他，也守護每一個孩子的基本人權。