sorry for the quietness, emailing every priest I can take a lot of time. I emailed all of them about 4 days ago and besides the two that I have mentioned earlier either they didn't want to input their opinion or they didn't respond. Now I'm in the process of texting them, and if that doesn't work, calling them. I'm always trying to find new ways to reach out but there's only so much one person can do! Please go to https://www.suscopts.org/diocese/bishop/ for the bishop's contact information and reach out to your own priests and fathers of confession, this is a team effort!!