This video is very intense for me to post because it brings up so much emotion. I really never thought I could break away from the relationship I was in. It’s so easy to fall in love with the wrong person. It’s very hard to realize and admit to yourself when it has become an abusive relationship. Leaving can feel like an impossible idea for so many reasons. But I got out, and I can say with my whole chest that things are so much better on the other side.

The problem is that getting out is not just about courage. So many people stay because they do not have money, housing, child care, legal help, transportation, or trauma support. When you are raising children, trying to protect your peace, and trying to rebuild after an unhealthy relationship, those barriers are real. Survivors should not have to choose between safety and survival.

That is why I am calling on Colorado state leaders to fully fund domestic violence exit and recovery services for survivors and their children. We need real access to emergency housing, legal aid, counseling, child care support, and long-term recovery services so people can leave safely and stay safe. Awareness matters, but awareness without resources leaves too many people stuck in dangerous situations with nowhere to go.

If you know what it is like to ignore flashing warning signs, if you have ever had to start over, or if you simply believe survivors deserve a real path out, please sign. Leaving can be the hardest step, but it should not be one people have to take alone. Let’s push for support that helps survivors get free, heal, and build something better on the other side.