I am saddened to share my ordeal with Sharon Smitherdoodle and Barbara Deborah Bacon, one of whom is a moderator of the Dallas Moms Facebook group. I have witnessed firsthand their disruptive behavior as they continuously manipulated information, instigated pointless disputes, and ultimately harmed the sense of community. Their actions have shown a deep lack of respect for other participants, their thoughts, and their feelings. Both individuals have acted decidedly against the values and standards expected within our community, directly impacting the harmony of our online environment.

This is not an isolated issue. Many others have expressed similar concerns about Sharon Smitherdoodle and Barbara Deborah Bacon, whose behavior has been consistently toxic, yet remains unchecked. They have repeatedly engaged in harassment, belittling members who dare to express differing opinions, and creating an atmosphere of hostility rather than support. Even more troubling is that they are not acting alone. Other members, such as Margaret, have joined in on their campaigns of bullying and harassment, making it increasingly difficult for members to engage in meaningful, respectful discussions without fear of being targeted.

One of their favorite tactics is arguing in circles—continuously making the same points while refusing to acknowledge counterarguments. They hypocritically condemn others for behavior that they themselves engage in without hesitation. They claim to uphold fairness and respect, yet their actions demonstrate the opposite, as they manipulate discussions, dismiss valid concerns, and weaponize moderation powers to silence those who challenge them. This kind of behavior is not only disruptive but corrosive to the very foundation of what this group is meant to be—a space for moms to connect, support, and uplift one another.

This is not simply about my experience; it is about protecting the integrity of our group and ensuring that it remains a welcoming and positive environment for all. If these individuals are allowed to continue their behavior unchecked, more members will be pushed away, and the group will further devolve into a toxic battleground rather than the supportive community it was intended to be.

Therefore, it is of utmost importance that Sharon Smitherdoodle and Barbara Deborah Bacon are not only removed from their moderator roles but banned entirely from the Dallas Moms Facebook Group. Their habitual conduct of harassment and spreading discord suggests that they are unlikely to improve their behavior, and allowing them to remain will only lead to further division and harm.

Let us stand together to ensure our shared online spaces foster positivity, understanding, and mutual respect. Let us demand accountability for actions that have harmed our community and continue to do so. I urge every member who values the integrity of this group to sign this petition to remove and ban Sharon Smitherdoodle and Barbara Deborah Bacon from the Dallas Moms Facebook Group. By doing so, we can restore the group's original spirit and prevent further harm to its members.

Now is the time for action. Let us reclaim our space from toxicity and rebuild a community that truly supports one another.