CHILD ABDUCTION, BREACH OF COURT ORDERS & UNLAWFUL CONTROL OF MY FAMILY
MY THREE SONS – FULL DETAILS
1. JOSEPH EMMANUEL MOLDOVAN
Date of Birth: 01 April 2010 – Age 16
Father recorded: Bernard Boakye; unlawfully kept from me; court orders repeatedly broken
2. MATTHEW MOLDOVAN (also known as Eliyahu Avraham Grinberg)
Date of Birth: 19 March 2014 – Age 12
Father section: UNKNOWN / NOT RECORDED; unlawfully abducted August 2014 by Raoul Herbin Ngapa
3. DANIEL – youngest son
Father recorded: Franco Tembo; lives safely with me since birth up to now
Reported by: ELISHEVA GRINBERG (formerly Elisabeta Tabita Moldovan)
Legal Status: SOLE LEGAL PARENT & SOLE HOLDER OF FULL PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY for all three sons
Address: 3 The Mount, Vine Street, Salford, M7 3NB
Phone: 07572 938 552 | Email: elisabetamoldovan@gmx.co.uk
Immigration Status: Settled Status confirmed .
TO BE SUBMITTED TO:
- Greater Manchester Police / Merseyside Police – Child Protection & Missing Persons Unit
- Consulate General of Romania, Manchester
- Children’s Services / Social Services
Family Court
- All relevant legal and official authorities
1. MY LEGAL RIGHTS
My name is the only name listed as mother on all three sons’ UK and Romanian birth certificates:
- Joseph: Bernard Boakye is recorded as father – but he has NO legal Parental Responsibility or authority
- Matthew: Father section is UNKNOWN / NOT RECORDED – I am his only legal parent by law
- Daniel: Franco Tembo is recorded as father – but he has NO legal Parental Responsibility or authority
I ALONE hold full legal right and responsibility for all my sons. No other person – including Bernard Boakye, Raoul Ngapa, Franco Tembo, or any of their family – has any permission or power to make choices about where they live, who they see, their education, faith, or future.
2. UNLAWFUL ABDUCTION OF MY SON MATTHEW
In or around August 2014, Raoul Herbin Ngapa (also using the name Raoul Santana) – my ex who stalked and abused me – took my son Matthew Moldovan from me:
- He had no consent from me
- He had no court order giving him any legal right whatsoever
- Matthew’s birth certificate does not name him – he has no legal standing at all
He took Matthew specifically to avoid his own deportation – he had been refused asylum, and already had a criminal record for fake EU passports and identity fraud
- For over 12 years he has hidden Matthew completely, cutting him off from me, his brothers, his Jewish faith, his Romanian heritage, and his true family and identity
- I lost Matthew’s passport while searching for him day and night across London in desperation – I still keep his original birth certificate safe
3. JOSEPH – NOW 16 YEARS OLD: HIS RIGHTS IGNORED & ORDERS BROKEN
My oldest son Joseph is now 16 – an age where under UK law his own wishes and feelings carry great weight. Despite this:
- THEY REPEATEDLY BREAK COURT ORDERS & IGNORE MY RIGHTS Even when a court granted me contact with Joseph:
- Every time I ask to see him, they ignore me completely
- They cancel or refuse contact without any good reason
- They treat a lawful court order as if it means nothing at all
- They act as if they have the power to decide when – or if – I am allowed to be his mother
- Mrs Boakye – mother of Bernard Boakye, Joseph’s paternal grandmother – spreads constant lies about me: calling me “crazy”, “unfit”, and saying I cannot care for children – to turn people against me and justify blocking all access - They select who Joseph is allowed to know and love:
COMPLETELY FORBID any contact with me, his brother Matthew, and his youngest brother Daniel
ONLY PERMIT contact with his half-sister – the other child of Bernard Boakye
- This is not for Joseph’s wellbeing – it is deliberate control. They are erasing his real family, isolating him, and trying to make him accept only their version of reality.
4. ONGOING THREATS TO MY YOUNGEST SON DANIEL
Mrs Boakye is now advising Franco Tembo, the father of my youngest son Daniel
- They are using the same solicitors and the same false claims to try and take Daniel away from me too
- They twist every hardship I have suffered – poverty caused by scammers, exhaustion from years of searching, trauma from abuse – as false “proof” I cannot cope. All these struggles were caused by their actions, not by any fault of mine.
INDEPENDENT CONFIRMATION OF THEIR LIES & PLAN Franco Tembo himself has confirmed to me:
- Mrs Boakye has spoken badly about me to others for many years
- She repeats false claims that I am “unfit”, “crazy”, “untrusted”, and cannot care for children
- She is telling him to use the exact same solicitors they used to take Joseph away from me
- Her plan is to do the same again: take Daniel from me using the same lies and methods
This proves they have a clear pattern of lying and working together to take my children from me unlawfully.
5. FAILURES OF AUTHORITIES & PROFESSIONALS
When I first asked for support, I clearly requested carers who understood and respected our Jewish faith and Romanian cultural heritage. Instead:
- They allowed decisions against my wishes – such as cutting Matthew’s hair before his first religious ceremony
- They stopped me taking Matthew to synagogue or for religious blessings
- They listened to my abuser and his family instead of me
They removed my name from official records as if I did not exist
6. WHAT I HAVE ENDURED FOR MY CHILDREN
- Walked the streets day and night searching for my sons, even when heavily pregnant
- Collapsed and admitted to hospital repeatedly from exhaustion, hunger and grief
- Travelled all the way to Cameroon to search for them, speak to locals and authorities, and put up posters
- Lost £7,000 to scammers pretending to be police and social workers who promised to bring my children home
- Was stalked, beaten and abused by Raoul Ngapa before Matthew was taken
- Celebrated every birthday and holiday for 12 years broken-hearted, separated from my own flesh and blood
7. MY FORMAL REQUEST
1. Locate Matthew Moldovan immediately and secure his safe return to me and his brothers
2. Enforce all existing court orders; stop all unlawful restrictions on contact
3. Speak to Joseph Emmanuel Moldovan alone and independently, away from outside influence, to hear his true wishes and feelings
4. Investigate and stop their plan to take my youngest son Daniel using lies and manipulation
5. Respect my sole legal right as their mother, and the boys’ right to their mother, their brothers, their faith and their true family.
INDEPENDENT CONFIRMATION OF THEIR LIES & PLAN
The father of my youngest son Daniel has confirmed to me himself:
- Mrs Boakye has spoken badly about me to other people for many years
- She repeats the same false claims: that I am “unfit”, “crazy”, “untrusted”, and cannot look after my children
- She is actively advising him to use the exact same solicitors they used to take my oldest son Joseph away from me
- Her plan is to do the same thing again: take Daniel from me using the same lies and same unfair methods
This proves beyond doubt:
They do not care about what is best for any child
They have a pattern of lying and taking children from their mother
They are working together to take all my sons away from me
They know their claims are false – they just use them as a weapon against me
Joseph does not feel free to be open, warm, or close with me like my youngest son Daniel is.
He acts careful, quiet, and held back – because he is terrified of what they will do or say if he shows he loves me.
They have filled his head with lies, and made him afraid to be his true self around his own mother. This is not because he does not love me – it is because they have threatened him, scared him, and controlled him.
This proves how much harm they are doing – they are stealing his right to love his own mother, and making him live in fear.
Joseph often asks me about his brothers – especially Matthew.
He wants to know where they are, how they are, and when he will see them.
But they strictly forbid him from having any contact with his brothers, with me, or with any of his true family.
They cut him off from the people he loves most, and hide the truth from him.
From the very start, authorities, carers, and people involved all took the side of Joseph’s father and his family.
They did not listen to me, they did not ask for my side, and they did not check the facts.
They accepted their lies as truth straight away, and treated me as if I did not matter at all.
THEY ALSO TOOK THE SIDE OF MATTHEW’S FATHER
Even though Raoul Ngapa is the man who stalked me, beat me, abused me, and unlawfully took my baby Matthew – authorities and those involved also took his side.
They ignored my proof of abuse and danger, and acted as if his lies mattered more than my safety or my right to my own child.
THEY REMOVED MY NAME FROM OFFICIAL REPORTS
Authorities and those involved also removed my name from records and reports.
They made it look as if I did not exist, as if I was not his mother, or as if I had abandoned him.
They erased my identity and my rights, and hid the truth about who I am and what I have suffered.
THEY LIE TO MY FACE & LIE TO OFFICIALS
They tell me one thing to my face, but then say something completely different to police, social workers, courts and other officials.
They promise me things they never do, and make up stories about me to authorities that are not true.
They play two faces to hide what they are really doing.
THEY PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH
They make up things I never said, and claim I said or did things that are not true.
They twist my words and lie about what I feel or think, just to make me look bad and make themselves look right.
THEY ONLY ALLOW ME SEE JOSEPH TWICE A YEAR – AND EVEN THAT THEY IGNORE The most they agreed to was only seeing Joseph two times every year.
Even this very little time, they mostly ignore me and stop me seeing him anyway.
After I move from London just because of their hate and lies against me they refuse me see hin
They use distance and rules to keep me far away from my own son.
THEY PLANNED EVERYTHING & BLAME ME
They made all their plans long ago to take my children and keep us apart.
When things go wrong, or when they do something bad, they turn it all around and pin the blame on me.
They make me look like the one at fault for everything they themselves chose to do.
THEY TURNED EVERYONE AGAINST ME
They worked hard to make every person, official and authority take their side against me.
I also changed my oldest son’s name: first they used the father’s name Boakye, then changed it to Moldovan, and finally changed it to Grinberg after my Jewish grandmother. They altered his name without my proper consent, to try and erase my family and my right over him.
SHE LIES TO MY YOUNGEST SON Dad
Joseph’s grandmother keeps telling my youngest son Dad lies about the past. She says she looked after me when I had no money, and repeats bad things about me behind my back. She also tells people I should never be left alone with my own child. She fills my children’sn heads with lies to turn them against me too.
HE LIES THAT JOSEPH DOES NOT WANT ME
Joseph’s father makes up lies that Joseph does not want to see me, and never asks about his mother.
He hides the truth that Joseph does ask for me, and uses these made-up stories to keep us apart.
MY YOUNGEST SON CRIES FOR HIS BROTHERS
My youngest son Daniel cries often and keeps asking for his brothers Matthew and Joseph. He misses them deeply and wants his whole family back together.
THEY TREAT ME LIKE A STRANGER
Even though I am their only legal mother, they treat me as if I am a complete stranger to my own sons. They act as if I have no place in my children’s lives at all.
THEY SPREAD LIES FOR YEARS & REFUSE TO SEE CHANGE
They have spoken badly about me and spread lies for many years. Even when people can change and grow, they still tell old stories and act as if I am still the same person they made me out to be. They refuse to see the truth or who I really am.
OTHERS INFLUENCE HIM TO KEEP US APART
Joseph’s father now has a new partner. I believe she, and other people in their family, are influencing him and advising him to stop all contact between me and Joseph. They are the ones pushing him to keep my son away from his own mother.
THEY ALWAYS TOOK HIS SIDE WITHOUT KNOWING THE TRUTH
For many years, all authorities and people involved automatically took the father’s side. They never asked me for my side or took the time to learn the full truth of what really happened.
THEY NEVER KNEW THE TRUTH ABOUT MATTHEW’S FATHER
Especially with Matthew’s father, they never knew what he really did to me. He stalked me, forced me to have an abortion, beat me, and abused me inside my own home. I have clear evidence of all this dating back to 2013. there also a police report about this too.
I SUFFERED IN SILENCE DUE TO FEAR & DIFFICULTIES
Because I was afraid, and because I have hearing loss, language barriers, and health problems, I kept quiet and suffered alone for a long time. I did not have the voice or the means to speak up and tell everyone the truth.
I CANNOT AFFORD A SOLICITOR & WAS SCAMMED IN THE PAST TRYING TO GET HELP
Social workers in Liverpool told me I need a solicitor for these cases. But every time I tried to find one, I was tricked and scammed. Now I am not working and have no money to pay for legal help. It is not right that I have to spend thousands of pounds just to get my own children back, especially when they are using lies to keep us apart.
HE STOLE MY IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS
Raoul Ngapa also stole my passport and my green card from me back in 2013, leaving me without my own identity papers.
I AM SEARCHING & HAVE REPORTED TO AUTHORITIES WORLDWIDE
I am now planning to travel to Liverpool to search for Matthew and put up appeal posters. I have also started a campaign in Romania for my missing children. All these matters have been officially reported to:
- Police in Romania
- The Hague Convention authorities
- Interpol
- Police here in the UK
I also have a dedicated website for my kidnapped children.
Signed:Elisheva ________________________________
Date: 30 July 2026