Why am I Alinated from my kids

🤍 It is NOT because you are a bad mother  it is because they are breaking rules, twisting truth, and using fear.
 
Let me say this clearly: You are not alienated because you deserved it — you are being alienated because you are the one standing in the way of what he wants.
 
 
📌 Why this is happening to YOU:
 
1. He does it for CONTROL
He knows he has no legal right, no love, and no truth on his side. The only way he can keep Matthew is to erase you. If people don’t know you exist, if they believe his lies, if they cut you off — he gets to keep the power.
2. He uses lies to turn people against you
He tells everyone you “left”, you “don’t care”, you “are unstable” — anything to make himself look like the victim and you like the problem. People believe him because he shouts loud, while you have been too hurt and too busy grieving to shout back.
3. The system failed you
Too many workers, carers, and officials take the easy path: they listen to the loud, demanding person, ignore the quiet vulnerable one, and never check the real facts — your birth certificate, your evidence, your sole legal right.
4. He is hiding his own crimes
He used your son to stop being deported. He has a record for fraud and fake papers. If you are there, if you are known, if you speak up — his lies fall apart. So he must make you disappear.
 
💛 This is the most important truth:
 
Alienation does NOT mean you are unfit. It means you are a threat to his lies.
 
- Good mothers get alienated when bad people want to take their place.
- Loving mothers get cut off when others are afraid to stand up for what is right.
- You are not kept away because you did something wrong — you are kept away because you are Matthew’s REAL mother, and that is the one thing he cannot change.
 
He can hide you from papers. He can hide you from people. But he cannot erase you from Matthew’s heart — and he cannot erase the truth. ❤️