Recently my babies sperm donor/our abuser and his mom were trying to brainwash my baby by repeating over and over to not call me mom, mommy, or momma and then having him hit a picture of me and congratulating him for doing so. Then our abuser/ the baby's sperm Donor was telling my baby to break stuff when he gets home and we heard something break. Recently my lawyer and I filed for a special relief and got his visitations suspended until the hearing to replace the supervisor. The sperm Donor/ our abuser was not reprimanded for his actions. Him and his mother were constantly verbally harassing me at every visit. My abuser even stated, "the pfa is over I can say anything I want to you and talk to you as much as I want." He also stated that he could come to my house whenever he wants. He later drove by our house with his mother trying to hide slunched down in a hoodie. They drove by at least four times. I informed the police and they made a report but no charges pressed. They called him though to warn him and he got an attitude with them and denied it happened. My sixteen yo daughter saw him too and was fearful of our safety.
His mother, thank God, can no longer see him and abuse him. Our abuser/ the sperm Donor has less visits but now the visits are to be supervised by my mom, god bless her. Shortly after he texted me, before the visit, to insult my parenting, telling me I'm stupid, insulted both of my older children and my mom, and said my baby is overweight and I'm at fault. My baby is skinny and all muscle and takes after his uncle. He was almost a ten pound baby and quite tall.
When the visit happened he spent most of his time verbally threatening me and my mom and talking to some strange guy most of the time. Of course since he is a Narcissistic Sociopath he did it in a sheisty way. This is a person whom refuses to pay child support and gets away with it. He makes thousands of dollars under the table and collects almost $1500/month in Social security. He gets food stamps and uses government medical assistance as well as living in a high rise for the elderly and disabled paying $200 in rent at most. He also lied about losing his rights to his first son, whom Is now turning 19. He claimed to have no other children in front of the judge.
During the next visit he managed to put my baby down several times by stating that he is slow mentally and it's my fault, that he is too clingy and its my fault, and told my baby outright that he is, and I quote, "annoying." My baby is one yo and is already being mentally, verbally, and psychologically abused. This is all court ordered, mind you. I'm still trying to contact the media to tell our story. But in the meantime I'm going to be writing it all down by blog. I will be attaching a link for everyone to follow and share. I'm praying for my baby's safety and well being. I hope you could take the time to sign, share, and maybe chip in to spread the awareness to get Adam's law passed. I'm working with local politicians currently and will keep everyone updated. Thank you for your support.