The Endless Battle Of A Father To Protect His Child’s Interest from A Vindictive Mother.
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Vindictive Mothers Selfishly Trying To Tear Apart Fathers From Children And The Endless Battle Of A Father To Protect His Child’s Interest.
Nowadays the father’s role as a parent is less valued and given little or no importance by the society, whereas children equally require their presence as much as mothers. More emphasis is laid on violation of women’s rights meanwhile men too are being imprisoned by gender stereotypes. This has to change.
The last of my 4 years of marriage was hell as I tried to cope and put up with an adulterous and selfish wife. We had 2 lovely kids and my finances were booming before I came to realize that she was having an extra-marital affair. Even with all the agony and pain I felt inside, I made all efforts to resolve the situation amicably so that we could move on for the sake of the family we had already built, but she demanded a divorce due to her hidden selfish agenda.
I finally granted her the divorce. Presently I am awaiting approval of the divorce decree I filed in for with adultery and cruelty being the motive. This is in accordance with the laws of Hindu Marriage Act.
Mutual agreements were made during the divorce proceedings which included granting me custody of our 2 kids.
The violation of the Divorce terms by forcefully taking away the children from me, (their biological father) in total defiance of the law, followed by her refusal to cooperate in jointly recovering and refunding funds we invested in the form of loans I granted her friends and relatives in the course of our marriage, gradually degenerated into a very worrisome scenario that greatly affected the children and me.
In order to overrule these mutual and legal agreements, my ex-wife filed in false complaints to law enforcement agencies which included; domestic violence, kidnapping, sexual harassment, and torture, all of which were dismissed after I went through thin and thick to provide the necessary evidence to discredit her false cases and prove my innocence. (Source: Media Stories Published with Wife Photo with DIG Police Officer and Quoting her allegation, in contrast to her statement I read in High Court Complaint, which is later disposed of)
It was a very tormenting journey as I was harassed, threatened and humiliated for crimes I did not commit. In some cases, corrupt means were used at the level of the police to file these complaints against me even after court rulings in my favor. My wife being the architect as she cunningly used the card of women’s rights to manipulate and violate children’s fundamental rights to experience their father’s love.
Several times I felt like giving up when the challenges were just too many to handle, but due to the love for my children and my desire to protect them from a selfish and harmful mother, I kept on fighting and I will continue the fight to protect them so it serves as an example for other fathers and children in similar circumstances.
The media, on the other hand, was fed with wrong information so as to mount pressure on me and discredit my ability to keep custody of our lovely and innocent children.
All of these happening at a time when our kids where in great need of love and affection, as they were still struggling to adapt to the difficult separation period and psychological trauma that accompanies it.
People involved and the problem they are facing
As a result of these false complaints and charges filed in against me at several law enforcement agencies, uncensored media involvement added to the vicious damaging cycle.
The first victims were our 2 innocent kids whose pictures regularly appeared in newspapers and other media platforms accompanied by negative unverified headlines.
Consequently rendering their study environment unfavorable as their School administrators, teachers and even classmates’ mindset and impressions about them changed negatively.
Out of the academic milieu, the image of my kids in the eyes of their schoolmates’ parents probably changed too thus making insertion into the society difficult for them.
The frightful media coverage of these innocent children in unverified circumstances and lack of protection from law enforcement agencies is a clear proof of violation of fundamental children’s rights.
As a father who upholds family values and who has a very strong bond with his children, the thought of living without my kids was traumatizing, my financial stability suddenly became uncertain and my reputation damaged as a result of the spread of fake news and false cases built up against me.
The atrocious questions posed by media organs, threats, and harassments by the police during investigations sometimes influenced by corrupt practices are all terrible experiences no one else Should go through.
My business was crumbling due to the huge sums of money she and refused to assist in the fund recovery plan. The monies including loan money transferred to her relative or friend account and I am now facing repayment issues.
She has taken many cheques of my and family member for hidden agenda. (The matter is under investigation and hence I am unable to comment more on few topics)
If I win or lose, as a human being victory is what I desire most, but no matter the outcome I will always uphold family values, love, happiness and togetherness. The welfare and happiness of my children is my main reason for living, so I’ll do everything within my means to keep them healthy and happy.
Rather than being depressed and broken, I chose to consider the situation I went through as an empowering forum which has made me well armed to help out those in a similar situation and to advocate for respect for human rights, specifically children’s rights and prevent vengeful mothers from destroying the bond of love that exists between caring fathers and their lovely children.
That She filed, Kidnapping and much more serious complaint against me including kidnapping my own daughter for the possible purpose of selling them or engaged them in prostitution. Her complaint at the police station is dismissed/Refused. (allegations are based on the interpretation of IPC section, Interpretation is serious than I have referred here)
She pursued District court Indore, her case was dismissed there too.
She filed an appeal before the high court, her case dismissed and it is proved that all allegations were false and frivolous.
That Gujarat High Court has provided direction to Surat Police to provide free police protection to me and my two daughters from the wife for any false complaint and life-threatening conspiracy against us.
That as she lost (Recently I have learned that she has filed new DV Complaint against me and my father) all cases and proved to be wrong, instead of approaching the supreme court for final appeal, she visited police in Indore and put new allegations on me that are completely contradiction with the complaint she filed and lost so far. Media organs are also misleaded.
But you know what?
My children with me were a constant reason for me to keep walking with head up, no matter what as long as I stood for truth and as I stood for truth, obstacles was obvious.
As under the India law, once a high court has ruled out, she can challenge it to supreme court however she went back to police through media and stressed them to file Kidnapping Complaint which is already dismissed by a high court. Hence, police have no jurisdiction to hear the matter. And, Police are so under-educated that, they are rude and just not ready to understand what is appropriate under the law. However, to save their back or safeguard their terms with media or complainant, they are forcing me to forget about all court order and give my daughters to wife, no matter what she would do with them. They are not concerned about the fact that children have potential harm from a mother and they are receiving police protection.
My wife officially given Custody of my children through a deed of divorce and withdrawn all her mother rights voluntarily and consciously since then, despite that she took my kids without my consent, for her hidden agenda (Due to legal reasons I am not allowed to disclose reasons) and I could have filed a complaint on that, however, I just thought to be a good human that time. It had then came to my mind, how much more children are vulnerable to matrimonial and custody issues and further they are affected by media and judicial process. My complaint issues are far more serious than what I have mentioned here, however, I am not allowed to post any evidence and footages and those are under investigations.
I remember once police officer told me; If press/media pressurize them, they will file 498a complaint on me, despite, I am innocent. How strange? isn't it? I pursued legal process and I am fortunate enough, my rights were recognized and no false complaint filed against me. I thank Gujarat High court for their Direction on protection against false complaint and harm to life to my children and me against wife.
In response to newspaper stories published by Dainik Bhaskar, they have also posted this and also revised previous fake news posted with edition as follows:
The fake stories posted by Dainikbhaskar is here: ‘My Husband Used A Gun To Have Sex With Me’; Indore Woman Reveals About The IT Expert She Married In 2012 Wife never mentioned anything about Gun, Sexual Harassment, and financial matters during her first police complaint, at the time of filing before district court and High Court appeal. (Update: Two FIR is Registered now)
Why this is a fake story because MP high court has ruled it out that said allegations are fake. I am attaching that order, which was kept hidden to media and police.
In response to her manipulated CCTV, here is the footage where my parents and I were locked in a room by wife and she without consent took my kids whose custody she has formally submitted to me because of her adulterous relationship and planning of remarriage. And this h the opened in the first place: Shweta Shah Indore CCTV Video Footage - YouTube By this time, I received official custody of my children and that means taking them without my consent can be kidnapping.
To read Madhya Pradesh High court order that says Kidnapping charges are not applied and dismissed, Click here.
Click Here to read order provided by Gujarat High court for free police protection to me and my two daughters from wife against false cases and physical harm. Unfortunately, false complaint is still being filed and my two beautiful daughters and I are suffering.
This episode gave me an Understanding of children's vulnerability and I started a non-Governmental Organization: Dear Cherry Kiwi - JivanamAsteya. (Cherry (Naomi) and Kiwi (Daomi) are my two daughters). It focuses on advocating for Children’s Rights and Protection.
I’m also involved in other human rights advocacy platforms like Live More Family - JivanamAsteya, Resolve Complaint Online. Government, Police, Consumer.
I call on other individuals to create and donate to NGOs who advocate for the respect of human rights, specifically children’s rights laying emphasis on children of separated homes who are usually caught up in marital judiciary issues and fathers who are deprived of bonding with their children,
I call on media organs to properly verify information before publication or coverage especially when it concerns the vulnerable class of the society. Special organs should equally be created to handle the swift withdrawal of fake news articles and pictures, so as to reduce the reputation damage.
I have created a platform, Karnav with You: which helps to promote happiness, prosperity, family values and success in the life of individuals, couples, groups, and Entrepreneurs. I encourage others to create similar platforms, that way family and friendship bonds will become even stronger.
I request DIG, Indore to investigate a false complaint filed by wife and investigate all her statement against me as those are heavily contradictory. I have sent all the case related paper and evidence to DIG, Indore, Police - MG Road and Mahila thana in Indore that also includes court orders and direction sufficient to prove that I have been falsely implicated in serious allegation so my daughter can be taken by wife without going her to court and then she can trigger me to meet her demand and force me to withdraw criminal case. I wish I could release my phone conversation that I had with her to establish a connection to the reality. ( I need to present electronic evidence in court and it is inappropriate to publish any audio which is a crucial evidence.)
The leading print media journalist told me that, they assumed women are right and they published the story on face value without verifying the facts. They should verify all evidence I have sent to them, and if they believe, it is true, they should remove photos of my daughters and me as I want my children to be safe and free from any stress directly and indirectly. They should also remove the photo of my wife as it may adversely affect my children in future.
If the forces of law and order execute rulings made by the courts with immediate effect, it will go a long way to prevent harassments of innocent people in the course of investigations. Vindictive mothers like in my case should be arrested and punished in accordance with the law and any funds owed be refunded to the affected party.
Due to increasing harassment and threat, I decided to go public and ask people's and government's support to restore my daughters right and safety. Therefore, I am filing this petition.
I Demand fast, appropriate and non-discriminate approach and demand First Information Report to be registered by Surat Police against wife and other accused whose name has been submitted to police with other information in accordance with the law. (Update: Two FIR is Registered and further investigation is on)
My daughters and my life is in danger in Surat and even worse if my daughter and I go outside of Gujarat so I demand Indore Police to submit any future investigation to Surat police or police of any other state except MP Police.
I ask immediate intervention of Chief Minister of MP, Gujarat, Prime Minister of India, Law Minister, DIG Indore, Concern Police Officers, Leading NGO and media organ to come forward and help me restore rights, welfare, and safety of my children.
References/Quotes: (I am not able to post few documents, you can explore it on Indore or Gujarat Court website or obtain FIR though RTI)
- Deed of Divorce Executed on 28/06/2017 (Including Custody Settlement)
- Complaint u/s 294, 323, 506, 366 and Search Warrant Dismissed by Session Court Indore, Registration Number: 3595/2017
- Private Complaint against me (Should be dismissed followed by High Court MP Order) u/s 361, 294, 323, 506, 363, Registration Number 3595/2017 (It seems duplicate case)
- Free Police Protection Order from Gujarat High Court to Children and Me, SCA 3595/2017
- Case Disposed of by High court of MP, MCRC/8048/2017
- FIR against Wife u/s 504, 506, Fir No. 336/2017
- Adultery FIR against wife’s Paramour u/s 497, FIR No. 48/2017
- Wife has filed DV case against me and my father under section 12 of Domestic
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