

Are we dating the same guy is Toxic and needs to be stopped! UK
The Issue
This Facebook page started with the right idea! Protecting women from the dangers that many men possess!
In society women are scared and as men we need to do more to protect them and feel safe, so this group was applauded!
Women are on a daily basis harassed or treated horrifically by men, and as fathers, husbands and partners we need to be showing women we are going to stand up for them and fight for them to be able to live a safer life!
HOWEVER
It’s gone from protecting women, to ridiculing and fabricating stories because a guy no longer wants to date!
I struggle to see how posting a man online because he no longer wants to see shows he was wrong to do so!
I have been ghosted and stood up, and I got on with my day!
Women gunning for men over really basic things is ruining dating and actually showing how vile people can be when they don’t get what they want! Swap the roles and there would be a public outcry!
The group has rules and constantly the rules are broken and not policed well by the moderators!
I’ve seen personal information shown of men’s addresses, where they work, where their kids go to school, please explain how a man ghosting you means his children need to be put at risk? There is no excuse for it!
Making allegations of abuse so that women will avoid someone just because you are upset he doesn’t want to be with you, is not ok!
I myself have had my friends try to defend me in the group and they have either been met with hostile women,
or been removed or blocked from the group! Why are moderators blocking people who have reported the posts? Surely if a post is not factual then it should be reported if it’s then endangering someone! Which highlights the page is not fit for purpose when they are willing to listen to any story that’s written without proof! And damaging reputations!
I have been in men’s support groups where people are too afraid to leave their homes and are borderline suicidal because some of the vicious lies in these groups,
and woman are visibly laughing and enjoying the victimisation of men and not realising the damage!
The group has become just a toxic place where if you don’t do as a woman says then you will be posted, now tell me how is that right!
If you are posting in these groups for anything other than violence, infidelity, sexual assault etc then you need to realise that the guy probably was right to walk away!!
Dating isn’t a bargaining tool it’s about getting to know someone and seeing if it will go anywhere
If a guy sees you 5 times then decides you are not for him then he has every right to do so as do you, without the threat of being posted and called a red flag!
Red flags are not just a male thing, female behaviours are also a red flag! A lot of the stuff written on these pages is online bullying mocking men because of their weight, how they dress, the hair line etc, but yet they read the comments and applaud one another on the things written and goad each other on rather than realise they are showing why the man walked away!
This group in its current state stamps all over those women who have been hurt at the hands of D/V it hurts the work done by many groups to protect and work hard for women’s rights!
There are women who have been beaten to death because of D/V and there’s women who lie about it online because she is hurt someone didn’t want to see her again! Let’s just think about that!
Please let us not in this current state of poor mental health have someone take their life before something is done!

The Issue
This Facebook page started with the right idea! Protecting women from the dangers that many men possess!
In society women are scared and as men we need to do more to protect them and feel safe, so this group was applauded!
Women are on a daily basis harassed or treated horrifically by men, and as fathers, husbands and partners we need to be showing women we are going to stand up for them and fight for them to be able to live a safer life!
HOWEVER
It’s gone from protecting women, to ridiculing and fabricating stories because a guy no longer wants to date!
I struggle to see how posting a man online because he no longer wants to see shows he was wrong to do so!
I have been ghosted and stood up, and I got on with my day!
Women gunning for men over really basic things is ruining dating and actually showing how vile people can be when they don’t get what they want! Swap the roles and there would be a public outcry!
The group has rules and constantly the rules are broken and not policed well by the moderators!
I’ve seen personal information shown of men’s addresses, where they work, where their kids go to school, please explain how a man ghosting you means his children need to be put at risk? There is no excuse for it!
Making allegations of abuse so that women will avoid someone just because you are upset he doesn’t want to be with you, is not ok!
I myself have had my friends try to defend me in the group and they have either been met with hostile women,
or been removed or blocked from the group! Why are moderators blocking people who have reported the posts? Surely if a post is not factual then it should be reported if it’s then endangering someone! Which highlights the page is not fit for purpose when they are willing to listen to any story that’s written without proof! And damaging reputations!
I have been in men’s support groups where people are too afraid to leave their homes and are borderline suicidal because some of the vicious lies in these groups,
and woman are visibly laughing and enjoying the victimisation of men and not realising the damage!
The group has become just a toxic place where if you don’t do as a woman says then you will be posted, now tell me how is that right!
If you are posting in these groups for anything other than violence, infidelity, sexual assault etc then you need to realise that the guy probably was right to walk away!!
Dating isn’t a bargaining tool it’s about getting to know someone and seeing if it will go anywhere
If a guy sees you 5 times then decides you are not for him then he has every right to do so as do you, without the threat of being posted and called a red flag!
Red flags are not just a male thing, female behaviours are also a red flag! A lot of the stuff written on these pages is online bullying mocking men because of their weight, how they dress, the hair line etc, but yet they read the comments and applaud one another on the things written and goad each other on rather than realise they are showing why the man walked away!
This group in its current state stamps all over those women who have been hurt at the hands of D/V it hurts the work done by many groups to protect and work hard for women’s rights!
There are women who have been beaten to death because of D/V and there’s women who lie about it online because she is hurt someone didn’t want to see her again! Let’s just think about that!
Please let us not in this current state of poor mental health have someone take their life before something is done!

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Petition created on 9 January 2025