Not even adoptive parents can do that. Your mother will always be your mother, ESPECIALLY if she broke herself to save you, and did everything she could for you. Adoption should not be a living abortion, but that’s how it feels for us. It was supposed to be uniting of families, but we find out how selfish adopters can be, taking children and making false promises to their mothers giving them false hope, and then using those children to validate their own existences and bandage their infertility which those children weren’t created for not will they be able to, leaving them feeling helpless because they won’t be able to heal their parents wound. Adoption has become the cruelest torture for mother and baby because adoptive parents have no accountability at all to anyone.