My situation occurred because a dental consultant at an NHS hospital in Central London removed 12 teeth from my 14 year old son without considering the impact on a child with severe autism, an eating disorder and significant sensory and cognitive challenges. A nurse then sent him home without ensuring he was drinking.
He failed to thrive when he got home and I spent weeks nursing him whilst seeking help from health professionals. He continued failing to thrive and on my second visit to A & E insisted the hospital admit him, the same hospital the dental surgeon abused my son.
Unbeknown to me, whilst I was keeping his school updated the Deputy Principal rang social services and fed them a host of lies.
Her actions were vindictive and malicious and stemmed from the threat of her losing the funding for my son as I was trying to get him into a school which could better meet his needs. Even though in the 10 years he attended that school she never requested any assessments to be carried out and merely babysat my son she was angry that I had commissioned a host of professionals to assess my son. She criticised me for being a good parent and seeking the best for my son!
This individual is not fit to be a Deputy Principal, but is still at the school and I wonder how many parents she has abused in this way.
As for Social Services the team who dealt with me are a team of bullies who had no interest in the well-being of my child. They simply use their positions to bully parents of special needs parents.
One social worker who claimed to have 7 years experience used coercive control techniques and threatened to put my son into care on two occasions.
She did nothing to help me and just left me to work and look after my son until he was well enough to go back to school.
She visited me at my home and harassed me until I was physically sick.
Her Team Lead is a man who cares nothing about truth. He is a very unkind and dishonest character who has no mercy.
This is ABUSE and these people have been getting away with this for decades and it still goes on.
They are not fit to be in their jobs. They should be cast out!