For awareness and to promote safety in our community,  the Tocci family has erected a sign to commemorate the loss of a sister, daughter, mother who was killed by a distracted driver and someone driving under the influence.   The sign honors a young child's mother who was taken away too soon, but it also is a reminder to all who drive our local roads to be vigilant and to obey the laws.   Do not text and drive.  Do not drink and drive.   The sign is not offensive and is welcomed by a majority of the people in the area and those who travel these roads. We ask the Town of Southampton and the people of the Flanders community to support the sign and let it be.